Daily Question, July 1 Who in my life dances to the beat of my drum? 37 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. TofuLove8 months agoTofuLoveI think there are aspects of my experience that if others have lived through something similar from my same culture would in those areas have relatable emotional experiences, like grief, as someone who was adopted, I lost my biological parents than as someone who lost my adoptive parents, there just has been a theme of grief and loss in my life. So I think people who understand grief and what it is to have fears related to loss, likely can understand my perspective on certain issues. But likely ...I think there are aspects of my experience that if others have lived through something similar from my same culture would in those areas have relatable emotional experiences, like grief, as someone who was adopted, I lost my biological parents than as someone who lost my adoptive parents, there just has been a theme of grief and loss in my life. So I think people who understand grief and what it is to have fears related to loss, likely can understand my perspective on certain issues. But likely not on tons of other things. I feel anyone who feels a sense of others being relatable whoever they are is likely similar in ways to myself as that is pretty big part of the drumbeat, I feel a sense of casualness and connectedness with other people … not sure if that is some kind of boundaries issues as I just feel comfortable and accepting of others very quickly. Read More0 Reply Skeeter8 months agoSkeeterI do. 1 Reply Malag8 months agoMalagI hope no one. I have a rhythm but I don’t expect or want anyone to line up with mine. Everyone has their own unique rhythm. 2 Reply Ose8 months agoOseIt took a while to reach down to reply. My early imprints trained me to listen to mainly two drums almost opposite to each other, combined with the strong demand to follow either the one or the other, and was either yielding or internally far withdrawing to reduce internal stress in a perceived hopeless situation. Often enough, I was confused due to the antagonism inside. For the moment being, and through diving down to my feelings related to both this question and the word for the day, I slowly...It took a while to reach down to reply. My early imprints trained me to listen to mainly two drums almost opposite to each other, combined with the strong demand to follow either the one or the other, and was either yielding or internally far withdrawing to reduce internal stress in a perceived hopeless situation. Often enough, I was confused due to the antagonism inside. For the moment being, and through diving down to my feelings related to both this question and the word for the day, I slowly became aware that at one most important point, I could not identify correctly what to do. I thought if I would finish the project that I could come back to the path of my heart. But it might not be given. I don´t know, and it leaves me extremely sad, although in the same time, I am quite happy as well to have finished what was intended in that situation, hopefully serving and giving to the whole what I could give, grateful and with much kind support from guides, dear friends and as well you all here. Still if I may, from my heart I pray and kindly ask the universal light to allow an integration of both, and, if it would be of benefit for the whole, to be allowed to reconnect where my heart belongs. Read More4 Reply 8 months agoI would like to solace you, Ose, the Path of the Heart is never lost. it can’t, by its very nature. only do we have expectations what it looks like. so be well spirited, as you already are, and determined. then you might be able to enjoy with humility and curiosity how life is unfolding. the one who we trust in, who speaks to us from the depths of our hearts, who’s presence is the most precious thing in our lives will never leave us astray ?! be well and trust! 5 Reply Ose8 months agoOseThank you dearly for your touching solace, dear Verena. So kind of you to listening so carefully and to respond in this heartfelt way. You are a role model to me and others in having developed to stand for your values and for what it is worth risking, as you named it recently. Thank you for being here with us, dear friend. May your path be blessed. 4 Reply Dusty Su8 months agoDusty SuMy soul partner—we've committed to relationship this year. We are very different in many ways but so alike in other respects. A great gift is that we have is the ability to learn how to dance to each other's drum beats. To gain new rhythms and incorporate them, even after six decades or more of drumming in different ways. A lovely aspect of that is the core rhythm that connects us to others is the idea of loving service fueling the drum circle. I love that I can drum and he listens and dances,...My soul partner—we’ve committed to relationship this year. We are very different in many ways but so alike in other respects. A great gift is that we have is the ability to learn how to dance to each other’s drum beats. To gain new rhythms and incorporate them, even after six decades or more of drumming in different ways. A lovely aspect of that is the core rhythm that connects us to others is the idea of loving service fueling the drum circle. I love that I can drum and he listens and dances, I love that I do likewise when he drums. I love that we drum and others are blessed. I also use rhythm and laughter techniques as a modality to invite education, socialization, behavioral skills, and communication into the lives of people with disabilities. Such wonderful tools! Read More3 Reply Hot Sauce8 months agoHot SauceBecause we’re all different in some ways, it’s hard to say that anyone dances exactly to the beat of my drum, but one person I can think of is my pastor at First Congregational United Church of Christ in Greeley, Colorado. In many ways, while his journey is not the same as mine, he has been through many events in his spiritual journey that relate well to mine, like having deep questions that could sometimes put him in a psychological loop or wondering if he is really called to do ministry. 5 Reply kds6188 months agokds618I don’t know anyone living on this plane that could dance to the beat of my drum. With that said, my connection to the spiritual world stands strong and I am proud. In that aspect, I could relate in spirit form. Human form is complicated. 2 Reply Don Jones8 months agoDon JonesMy drum has fallen silent. My dancing has become stillness. My knowing has become unknowing. Yet the flower blooms. 5 Reply Susan Ketchin8 months agoSusan Ketchinjust me. but I love it when I find others who dance to their own beats and the beats are in harmony with each other. that happens, but too rarely for me! It’s hard when you try to dance to yours, and the other person is off beat! 3 Reply Maeve8 months agoMaeveIs this like “being on the same page?” Not everyone, all the time. Helen in Vermont, often. My niece, Nina, sometimes. Nelson, my hiking buddy sometimes, saying “It’s time in my life to be happy….” Ruth Cronin- yes. I want to get in touch with her… Gretka, very often. My little grand-nephew, Jazz, I hope! Especially dancing to the rhythm of nature… Mary Oliver: “What are you going to do with your one wild and precious life?” 3 Reply KC8 months agoKCOn a good day, I believe there is a universal rhythm, beat and flow that we are each invited and quietly encouraged to attune to. I am blessed at times to feel connected with this universal heartbeat, in the company of others, and we silently dance together. This is a rare and precious dance for which I am grateful, when it happens. 6 Reply 8 months agobeautiful… I might become a dancer when I look at it this way ? 2 Reply KC8 months agoKCRight! ?? 0 Reply Present Moment8 months agoPresent MomentWe all do! Our drum is our heartbeat 5 Reply KC8 months agoKCYes!!!! 2 Reply Mica8 months agoMicaI’ll vote with the majority and agree that I’m the one who dances to the beat of my drum – and I happily danced to the beat of others’ drums once in Ghana. 3 Reply Zenith8 months agoZenithI agree. Strange question. Only me. 3 Reply pkr8 months agopkrI dance to the beat of my drum. ❤️ 3 Reply Maria8 months agoMariaI am trying to build up my self esteem and confidence to find and follow the beat of my own drum rather than constantly feeling the need to adjust my dance to follow the beat of others. 4 Reply Ineke Bennink8 months agoIneke BenninkMijn 6 kleinkinderen, altijd feest! 3 Reply Pollyanna Gladwell8 months agoPollyanna GladwellMijn 6 kleinkinderen, altijd feest! My 6 grandchildren, always a party! Nice, Ineke! 2 Reply Katrina8 months agoKatrinaNo one but me. And I wouldn’t want anyone else to. Everyone needs to hear their own drum beat… 3 Reply Howie Geib8 months agoHowie GeibI have always tended to be a part of a drumming circle rather than a solo act. In the sense that as a leader I have been in synch with other leaders. Leaders in the loosest sense of the word. More like instigators. There are probably a couple hundred (I have no reason to accurately count them) followers who consume the creative output I produce, And while I rarely meet them or even connect with them except through my work, I have a sense of their loyalty. which is to say they are not very LOL....I have always tended to be a part of a drumming circle rather than a solo act. In the sense that as a leader I have been in synch with other leaders. Leaders in the loosest sense of the word. More like instigators. There are probably a couple hundred (I have no reason to accurately count them) followers who consume the creative output I produce, And while I rarely meet them or even connect with them except through my work, I have a sense of their loyalty. which is to say they are not very LOL. But as I ‘drum’ away they drift up for a while and sway to the ‘music’ and then, satiated or distracted, move on. As important as they are to my role as a creative, it is the act of creating that is my source of satisfaction, I leave the audience out of my equation. When I lived in Haiti often at night one would hear drumming off in the mountains away south of where I lived in the countryside. At first it was haunting, but then it became a comfort. For after a time in the place, even I, a white dude (from Connecticut!), could feel its call and it found resonance in my core. The drumming became inextricably part of the place and vital. So it is enough that whatever drumming I do casts off across the water of life to hearers I never see or meet, reminding them of what or who I likely ever know. Read More4 Reply 8 months agoI’m not a drummer, I’m not a dancer, I’m a ? listener 5 Reply 1 2 Next » My Private Gratitude Journal Write an entry in your private gratefulness journal Get Started This site is brought to you by A Network for Grateful Living, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. 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