Daily Question, January 25 When and from whom have you experienced forgiveness in your life? 38 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. Marose2 months agoMaroseI am not a daughter that one parent may be proud of. In fact, I have caused more pain to my family than any of my siblings. One mistake after another causing a tremendous amount of pain to my mother and father. Despite all of it, a prodigal daughter, forgiveness is something that seems to stem out from their overflowing hearts. 1 Reply Zenith2 months agoZenithI agree. I think self forgiveness is the most difficult part of life. But forgive ourselves we must if we are to move forward and take in beautiful new horizons. 2 Reply sunnypatti2 months agosunnypattiSo many instances, but the biggest one was when I finally forgave myself after my first marriage ended. I knew it was toxic and needed to end, but I struggled with being a failure, with having made such a poor choice in staying so long, with all of the mistakes that led me to marry that person, and how I never opened up to anyone about how awful it truly was. But part of that was the lack of love for myself, and turning that page in my life helped me in more ways than I ever expected. I forgave ...So many instances, but the biggest one was when I finally forgave myself after my first marriage ended. I knew it was toxic and needed to end, but I struggled with being a failure, with having made such a poor choice in staying so long, with all of the mistakes that led me to marry that person, and how I never opened up to anyone about how awful it truly was. But part of that was the lack of love for myself, and turning that page in my life helped me in more ways than I ever expected. I forgave myself, and in doing so, I knew that God had forgiven me as well. Read More3 Reply Malag2 months agoMalagIt seems like a question asked recently enough and my answer again is: so often. Life is lived through many micro aggressions that we humans experience between us and so many times when I have done something stupid or let’s say not aligned to my values those close to me will forgive. And I hope I them. That’s love. 2 Reply Hot Sauce2 months agoHot SauceRecently, I said something kind of offensive to my mom. I felt bad about it afterwards and felt so stressed out, that when I went to the dentist, they couldn’t clean all my teeth because I kept anxious-gagging. I was really scared it was going to turn into a spat. Instead, when I got home, my mom was completely over it, and I had stressed myself out over a whole lot of nothing. 2 Reply Nitesh Kumar Sharma2 months agoNitesh Kumar SharmaI realized the importance of forgiveness only when I got to know my true self. That Everyone in this world including me is fighting an unknown battle that others know nothing about. So be kind always. If you know your sufferings and trauma then you would definitely look after others. It's based on the knowledge and experiences I have in my brain. You can take it as a point but do what works for you. Forgive yourself for everything you did whether it's good or bad, dark or light, and the rest wil...I realized the importance of forgiveness only when I got to know my true self. That Everyone in this world including me is fighting an unknown battle that others know nothing about. So be kind always. If you know your sufferings and trauma then you would definitely look after others. It’s based on the knowledge and experiences I have in my brain. You can take it as a point but do what works for you. Forgive yourself for everything you did whether it’s good or bad, dark or light, and the rest will take care of itself. I know that my mind can think both negatively and positively but I don’t know if it really matters when you are constantly challenging your biases. Read More4 Reply Kristi2 months agoKristiTight question as no example stands out. All I can think is daily I’m forgiven for making typical human mistakes! 3 Reply Nitesh Kumar Sharma2 months agoNitesh Kumar SharmaHuman Mistakes are not mistakes anymore once we see them the way they’re not the way we are programmed to see. 2 Reply stanatwf2 months agostanatwfI think there is a special forgivness involved with children and parents – Maybe that applies to G and us as well. I can truly forgive my kids for things and recall so many times where my parents forgave me for things that I was ashamed of. 3 Reply Dusty Su2 months agoDusty SuI have asked God, those I have hurt, and myself for forgiveness many times over. The hardest one to get forgiveness from has been myself. For those who have found it hard to forgive me, I have after much contrition said, “I have asked God and you for forgiveness, I have tried to make restitution. I believe God has forgiven me, I have also forgiven myself, maybe one day you will too. If there is anything I can do to make that happen, tell me…” Sometimes, you just have to have to live in for...I have asked God, those I have hurt, and myself for forgiveness many times over. The hardest one to get forgiveness from has been myself. For those who have found it hard to forgive me, I have after much contrition said, “I have asked God and you for forgiveness, I have tried to make restitution. I believe God has forgiven me, I have also forgiven myself, maybe one day you will too. If there is anything I can do to make that happen, tell me…” Sometimes, you just have to have to live in forgiveness by faith as you may never get it from another. Read More5 Reply Nitesh Kumar Sharma2 months agoNitesh Kumar SharmaSo damn true. I can understand it and truly feel that from the bottom of my heart. It is really hard to forgive yourself than to forgive others. But it’s not impossible. We can learn to forgive ourselves as if we can forgive others. 3 Reply Dusty Su2 months agoDusty SuYes, that’s the thing. When we learn to forgive others, we can extend that to ourselves and vice versa. 2 Reply Melissa2 months agoMelissaMy brother who died of an overdose came to me in a dream and asked for forgiveness as he didn’t mean to die. He asked me to tell my mother and father who grieved so deeply. I told them and even though I am not sure they believed it. I think it did have an impact of some comfort. The dream felt real. 6 Reply Nitesh Kumar Sharma2 months agoNitesh Kumar SharmaI somewhere read that we have the same experience when we jump out of our bed and go out in the world as we sat in the bed and think about it. If you really try to see the difference between what you see and experience and what you think and experience. They’re almost the same. There’s absolutely no difference. I don’t really mean anything. It’s just what my mind could think of after reading your reply. So I wrote it down. I am not sure if it’s exactly what I said or not?But yeah, One ...I somewhere read that we have the same experience when we jump out of our bed and go out in the world as we sat in the bed and think about it. If you really try to see the difference between what you see and experience and what you think and experience. They’re almost the same. There’s absolutely no difference. I don’t really mean anything. It’s just what my mind could think of after reading your reply. So I wrote it down. I am not sure if it’s exactly what I said or not?But yeah, One of my friends told me that there’s actually no difference between what you see and what you experience at least for you they’re not different. For others it is debatable. Read More1 Reply Dusty Su2 months agoDusty SuAnd believable. Bless. I had the converse type of dream after my father died; I met him as he journeyed onward and asked him for forgiveness. He was incredulous, as he had no memory of what I’d need forgiveness for. I knew where he was going there was no room for unforgiveness. 3 Reply Don Jones2 months agoDon JonesToday (26 January) is Australia Day. The indigenous people call it “Invasion Day”. After 250 years I fear many (perhaps most) in this nation just don’t know what the path to forgiveness looks like. 7 Reply Nitesh Kumar Sharma2 months agoNitesh Kumar SharmaHi Don, Many Many Congratulations to you and your countrymen for this Wonderful day. Happy Invasion Day. 1 Reply Don Jones2 months agoDon JonesI am sorry… there is no happiness or pride in genocide. 1 Reply Holly in Ohio2 months agoHolly in OhioThe United States has made quite a few transgressions, and it may not be that forgiveness always takes the same form. I have had two wonderful friends who, as American citizens of Japanese descent, had been interned in camps in the desert during WWII, and their families lost everything they had. My one friend taught me much of the history, including the history of the apology. She said in the camps it was hardest on their parents, because they were not allowed to vote within the camp, so it turn...The United States has made quite a few transgressions, and it may not be that forgiveness always takes the same form. I have had two wonderful friends who, as American citizens of Japanese descent, had been interned in camps in the desert during WWII, and their families lost everything they had. My one friend taught me much of the history, including the history of the apology. She said in the camps it was hardest on their parents, because they were not allowed to vote within the camp, so it turned things upside down, where the children were in charge. It was interesting to me that of all the things they endured, this one in particular stuck in her mind. It taught me that often it is dignity lost that is the most important part. Another thing she taught me was how internment was not equally applied, that the Hawaiian and others not on the west coast were not interned, as she said because the internment was really about agricultural competition on the west coast. She felt it important that this point of history was understood. She told me about the congressional committee, and how hundreds of survivors were able to make statements to the committee. Some years after committee recommendations were made, the survivors of the camps received money from the government in recompense for what they lost. It was only $20,000 per person. She described it as a token, a beginning, not that the money much mattered after forty-some years. They had lost farms, homes, belongings, their future. But what the survivors most wanted, was the public acknowledgement of wrongdoing and an apology from the President of the United States which was made in 1988 by Ronald Reagan. Since then, federal money has been allocated for the preservation of one of the camps as a museum, and it has been much visited. Though the path to forgiveness will look different, there are some key points that are likely to be the same. There must be public acknowledgement, there must be dignity restored, there must be a correction to history, and the means to teach future generations the truth. Read More4 Reply Dusty Su2 months agoDusty SuDay of loss and mourning, but yes, wonderful chance for forgiveness, understanding, reconciliation. 5 Reply Dusty Su2 months agoDusty SuI posted on my Facebook wall this a.m. If the perpetuators of Empire could only realize that “As I hurt you, I hurt myself. Your wounds are mine. There is no joy for me on the back of your loss. More importantly though, as I co-create space for you to be honored, heard, and healed in, so am I.” The 26th of January is a sad day for too many for too long. We newbies could cross our forefather’s boundaries and be on the right side of history, if we humbly, remorsefully listened, saw, under...I posted on my Facebook wall this a.m. If the perpetuators of Empire could only realize that “As I hurt you, I hurt myself. Your wounds are mine. There is no joy for me on the back of your loss. More importantly though, as I co-create space for you to be honored, heard, and healed in, so am I.” The 26th of January is a sad day for too many for too long. We newbies could cross our forefather’s boundaries and be on the right side of history, if we humbly, remorsefully listened, saw, understood, and acted. I am heartened by the growing number of voices rising. Read More3 Reply Lauryn2 months agoLaurynFrom my ex —- we both did and said bad things to each other. Even though we are no longer together, we still maintain a friendship. 7 Reply Nitesh Kumar Sharma2 months agoNitesh Kumar SharmaIt’s just amazing, How did you guys manage to do that? Is it the power of Forgiveness or self-Understanding? But anyway, you guys have a great understanding of relationships. 1 Reply Pam2 months agoPamMy shame was so overwhelming, I had carried it for years. I had finally confessed to my Mom what I had done. With such love and tenderness she forgave me. I knew if she could forgive me, that God could too. I confessed my sin(s) and accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. That was over 35 years ago. I needed that reminder. We are called to forgive other as he forgives us. 8 Reply Nitesh Kumar Sharma2 months agoNitesh Kumar SharmaAcceptance is the first path towards self-discovery. This is what my mind can think of. I love the type of character you possess. Really amazing I wish to meet you in person. 1 Reply Cathie2 months agoCathieThough for some reason, our family does not use the words to offer forgiveness, or ask for an apology, their actions and love let me know I am continued to be forgiven for any slight I caused. Sometimes I do not even realize that I have been unkind with a word or action until they tell me I have ticked them off. But they continue to love me and forgive me. I also have received forgiveness from friends – once again when my actions or words caused hurt. 5 Reply Carol2 months agoCarolI’m finding this question very difficult. I immediately realized how difficult it is for me to forgive myself. But, to answer the question directly, I’m reminded of a recent conversation with my son. I was telling him that I wish I had been a wiser and more attentive parent when he was a child. He responded, “I’m who I am today because of the experiences I’ve had and as a child, I knew I was loved.” 8 Reply Holly in Ohio2 months agoHolly in Ohiowow. What a great kid! 🙂 2 Reply Mike S2 months agoMike SMy wife who I have put down in small ways I was totally unaware of and for which I am ashamed, have apologized and ssked forgiveness. 5 Reply Katrina2 months agoKatrinaMy husband – every single day of our marriage. I’m quite sure I am not the easiest person with whom to live. 7 Reply Trish2 months agoTrishMy ex-husband forgave me for breaking his heart. I’m not sure I’ve completely forgiven myself. It shouldn’t be an easy thing to forgive…..what an amazing gift he gave me. We are able to have family dinner every month with our children & granddaughter (ate on his sprawling porch during Covid warm days) & we love one another very much. His generosity means the world to me. 4 Reply Patricia2 months agoPatriciaThank you for this question, and I’ve answered in my heart. 8 Reply devy2 months agodevyFrom my wife after I stopped drinking. It took a few years to build trust but eventually the trust returned. 8 Reply 1 2 Next » My Private Gratitude Journal Write an entry in your private gratefulness journal Get Started This site is brought to you by A Network for Grateful Living, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. All donations are fully tax deductible in the U.S.A. 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