Daily Question, May 6 What movie(s) changed my life or, at least, perspective? 27 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. Peter1 month agoPeterThe Deer Hunter. Best movie I ever saw. I managed to avoid Vietnam, but that movie brought home the horror of it all 0 Reply Fiona Dunn1 month agoFiona DunnThe movie was “Truly, Madly, Deeply”. It showed me that we can hold onto grief for so long, we don’t realize we’ve started healing. 2 Reply Barb McRae1 month agoBarb McRaeThe movies that have opened my heart and/or mind a little more: Room with a View, Sophie’s Choice, Saving Private Ryan, Get Out, Interstellar, The Piano, Parenthood, Schindler’s List and Ben Hur. I’m sure there are more but these came to mind.. Each taught me something new about life and relationships. 2 Reply Barb C1 month agoBarb COh, thank you for reminding me of Parenthood! What a wonderful movie. Steve Martin as NOT the funny guy was brilliant. So many great actors/actresses in this. 1 Reply Blossom1 month agoBlossomSeveral movies I enjoyed so much that I have watched several times. The Shawshank Redemption: best line for me, “he had a quiet way about him, something inside nobody can touch “hope”. Favorite line, ‘Remember that Red, hope is a good thing, maybe the best of good things and no good thing ever dies. “Pride and Prejudice 1995 version: title depicts what each lead character needs to work on. My favorite line, “I could easily forgive his pride, if he had not mortified mine.” The d...Several movies I enjoyed so much that I have watched several times. The Shawshank Redemption: best line for me, “he had a quiet way about him, something inside nobody can touch “hope”. Favorite line, ‘Remember that Red, hope is a good thing, maybe the best of good things and no good thing ever dies. “Pride and Prejudice 1995 version: title depicts what each lead character needs to work on. My favorite line, “I could easily forgive his pride, if he had not mortified mine.” The dialogue throughout movie is poetic and delicious. Seabisquit: true story, the message of courage and wonder, to never give up on your dreams, no matter the barriers in the way. My favorite line said, once for the horse and once for the partially blind jockey. “You don’t throw a whole life away cause your banged up a little.” Anne of Green Gables: true story of young orphan girl with ADHD, message, don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself. My favorite line “ Dear Old World, you are lovely and I am glad to be alive in you.” Thanks for the question and the reminder of what I needed Read More3 Reply Michele1 month agoMicheleI love Pride and Prejudice too:) 1 Reply Fran1 month agoFranChildren of Men. It brought me to tears and not many movies do that. Back when it was released it seemed to me as a warning of what the future might hold. Sadly so much has happened in recent years that many aspects of the movie are facts of life today. Decreased fertility rates, worsening immigration issues, awful immigrant ghettos and detention centers, and senseless acts of terrorism. But a silver lining does emerge and for a brief moment there is a sense of awe and hope for a better brighte...Children of Men. It brought me to tears and not many movies do that. Back when it was released it seemed to me as a warning of what the future might hold. Sadly so much has happened in recent years that many aspects of the movie are facts of life today. Decreased fertility rates, worsening immigration issues, awful immigrant ghettos and detention centers, and senseless acts of terrorism. But a silver lining does emerge and for a brief moment there is a sense of awe and hope for a better brighter future. I had read the book by PD James before the movie was released and it did haunt me. I usually find movies a let down after having read the book, but this movie did not fail and really impacted me. Read More1 Reply Mica1 month agoMicaI’m loving the book, The Beauty of Dusk On Vision Lost and Found By Frank Bruni No movies worthy of mention come to mind. 1 Reply Charlie T1 month agoCharlie TWhen I think about it, the movies that affected me had more to do with what I was going through at the time. -Little big man -High fidelity -The great beauty I’m sure there are more, but these come to mind. I love movies and they have been a big part of my life, but mostly, they are a great distraction. A way to get out of my own head for a while. 3 Reply Barb C1 month agoBarb CI love movies and I know some have left me sitting in silence, crying or processing. Trying to think of them right now I'm coming up short, for some reason. I have to start by saying The Princess Bride would be my "cast away on a desert island but somehow with electricity so you can watch it" movie. Several have mentioned It's a Wonderful Life. That gave me the realization at a young age that everyone touches many lives and we may not even recognize the effect we have on others. I lose sight...I love movies and I know some have left me sitting in silence, crying or processing. Trying to think of them right now I’m coming up short, for some reason. I have to start by saying The Princess Bride would be my “cast away on a desert island but somehow with electricity so you can watch it” movie. Several have mentioned It’s a Wonderful Life. That gave me the realization at a young age that everyone touches many lives and we may not even recognize the effect we have on others. I lose sight of that at time so it’s good to be reminded. 12 Angry Men reinforced that you should stick up for what’s right even if many voices tell you you’re wrong. The Elephant Man taught me not to judge people based on appearance. Gran Torino told me never to give up on an old racist–they may still have room for change. District 9 didn’t change my perspective but is such a powerful portrayal of racism and again, someone’s capacity for change when they learn to see another as worthy of respect. West Side Story taught me that when humans divide into packs based on perceived differences or affiliations, tragedy ensues. Lots of science fiction and a bit of horror taught me never to go into the empty house or the dark hallway, not to assume aliens are friendly, and to be ready for the zombie apocalypse. (If I really were ready for the zompoc I’d also be fully prepared for the earthquakes that are likely in my part of the world, the Pacific Northwest, so that’s not a bad takeaway.) Read More3 Reply Michele1 month agoMicheleI also thought of West Side Story how love brings two different sides together:) 0 Reply Carol1 month agoCarolThe Stephen Spielberg historical movie "Amistad" which tells the true story of 53 free Africans captured with the intention of selling them into slavery. The incident began In February 1839 when Portuguese slave hunters illegally seized 53 Africans in Sierra Leone, a British colony, whom they intended to sell in the Spanish colony of Cuba. However, the slaves revolted while on the schooner Amistad, killing its captain and cook, and directing the planters to sail the ship to Africa. Inste...The Stephen Spielberg historical movie “Amistad” which tells the true story of 53 free Africans captured with the intention of selling them into slavery. The incident began In February 1839 when Portuguese slave hunters illegally seized 53 Africans in Sierra Leone, a British colony, whom they intended to sell in the Spanish colony of Cuba. However, the slaves revolted while on the schooner Amistad, killing its captain and cook, and directing the planters to sail the ship to Africa. Instead, the planters steered the ship north, where it wound up at Long Island Sound. The U.S. Navy spotted the vessel and took its occupants into custody. The plantation owners were freed and the Africans were imprisoned on charges of murder. Although the murder charges were dismissed, the Africans continued to be held in confinement and the case went to trial in the Federal District Court in Connecticut. After two district courts ruled in favor of the abolitionists, Then U.S. President Martin Van Buren immediately instructed the U.S. attorney general to appeal. Abolitionists hired John Quincy Adams, who some referred to as “Old Man Eloquent,” to argue for the Africans’ freedom in the Supreme Court. On February 24, 1841, former President John Quincy Adams begins to argue the Amistad case in front of the U.S. Supreme Court. A practicing lawyer and member of the House of Representatives, John Quincy Adams was the son of America’s second president, founding father and avowed abolitionist John Adams. The Africans had designated one of their own to represent them and accompany Adams to the Supreme Court hearing. Adams did win the case and the Africans were freed but when Adams met with the designated leader of the 53 Africans before the hearing, he tried to prepare him for a challenging day in court, reminding him that he would probably not be well received. Telling him, he would definitely be standing there alone. The African looked Adams in the I and said, “I will not be alone. I will call on the strength of my ancestors and they have to come.” The African’s words struck me so forcefully and for me, they rang true. I can’t tell you how many times I have called on my ancestors and claimed their strength in times when anxiety strikes and they always come. Creation is one. Read More3 Reply Mica1 month agoMicaThank you, Carol – what a treat your posting is. And then the Africans went on the Underground Railroad to Farmington CT and then eventually to Africa, says Wikipedia. 2 Reply Holly in Ohio1 month agoHolly in OhioI'm going to mention an OLD movie. For many, To Kill a Mockingbird with Gregory Peck is a movie they will remember, that addresses racism, and indeed it is still an immensely popular book. But for me, another, lesser known movie with Gregory Peck, Gentleman's Agreement, is a masterpiece. It teaches us about racism, but not in the usual, stark way, but instead shows the layers and insidiousness of it. How sometimes racism is obvious, and sometimes it is like a subtle, slimy, odor. This movie, w...I’m going to mention an OLD movie. For many, To Kill a Mockingbird with Gregory Peck is a movie they will remember, that addresses racism, and indeed it is still an immensely popular book. But for me, another, lesser known movie with Gregory Peck, Gentleman’s Agreement, is a masterpiece. It teaches us about racism, but not in the usual, stark way, but instead shows the layers and insidiousness of it. How sometimes racism is obvious, and sometimes it is like a subtle, slimy, odor. This movie, when I watched it as a young woman, taught me much, and I was gripped by the story. It says something about a movie when decades later, I still remember and treasure what it gave me. Read More4 Reply carol1 month agocarolLes Miserables– innate capacity once awakened enables a compassionate approach to life; that coming to this understanding needs to be nurtured by others/ community/society; that is it difficult; that we need to use our strengths; when we fail each other in this; their suffering will be our suffering. And the truth in – we cannot truly love in the absence of understanding. 2 Reply Chester1 month agoChesterNot sure any movie has had that power, but certainly there are many that have been impactful and key building blocks. To name one – Luther – great movie that depicted Martin Luther’s fight for truth amidst the misguided leadership of the Roman Catholic Church – demonstration of the will it takes to pursue truth and the ease with which masses can be misled. 2 Reply Javier Visionquest1 month agoJavier VisionquestThe Wizard of Oz, to witness Dorothy’s awakening only to descend into chaos; she’s challenged to unite her mind, heart, courage, and intuition to overcome and integrate the forces of evil and corruption. The journey raises her Kundalini (the yellow brick road), and she trades in superstition and a misplaced faith in an external god (Professor Marvel\the Wizard of Oz) for actualization and self-reliance. She was always perfect and pure and now conscious. 9 Reply Holly in Ohio1 month agoHolly in OhioThere are many great lessons in that movie, including how Dorothy had the power to go home all along, but, “You wouldn’t have believed me,” said Glinda. 🙂 We are all that vulnerable child, inside, who doesn’t believe has any power, but we do! 6 Reply Mary Pat1 month agoMary PatWow! I had forgotten all about this movie, but years ago I watched Cookie’s Fortune. It changed my perspective completely. To Kill a Mockingbird is another one. Kinky Boots is another. I watched the DVD before it became a hit. Dead Poets Society as well. Star Wars was another one. So many! It’s a Wonderful Life. Up. Quite a few! I could go on and on, but will stop for now….good memories-thanks! 3 Reply Laura1 month agoLauraOh, wow. Apollo 13, for the miracles that were accomplished with slide rulers and early transistors. American Graffiti, for the capturing the magic and promise of a summer night. Star Wars (1977), no more needs to be said. Saving Private Ryan, the terror and horrors of war and the known and unknown sacrifices others make for us. Many others but too numerous to list. 2 Reply sunnypatti1 month agosunnypattiOh, so many, including some that have been named by others… The Sea Inside. Eat, Pray, Love. The Notebook. Beaches. Dead Poets Society. It’s a Wonderful Life. The Endless Summer. My Octopus Teacher. 2 Reply Pilgrim1 month agoPilgrimThe Way, The Wizard of Oz, The Blind Side, The Sound of Music, Driving Miss Daisy, Mr Holland’s Opus, Finding Forrester, The Magic of Ordinary Days, We Bought a Zoo, Secretariat. 4 Reply devy1 month agodevyForest Gump.. I’ve watched it at least 5o times.. the memories of growing up during those times, the music and the meaning and lessons learned by Forrest. 7 Reply Kevin1 month agoKevinIt’s a Wonderful Life Roots Zorba the Greek Cinema Paradiso The Lion King WALL∙E UP 6 Reply Michele1 month agoMicheleoh wow, so many. My mind wants to pick all my favorite movies, but I’m trying to stay focused on the question of which ones changed my life or perspective…The Notebook – on how terrible dementia is and gave a perspective on that. The Amityville Horror – perspective on paranormal and the unknown. Under The Tuscan Sun – faith, friendships and not giving up. I’m sure there are more… I will sit with this one the rest of the day. Looking forward to reading everyone’s responses. 5 Reply 1 2 Next » My Private Gratitude Journal Write an entry in your private gratefulness journal Get Started This site is brought to you by A Network for Grateful Living, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. All donations are fully tax deductible in the U.S.A. DONATE https://gratefulness.org/content/uploads/2015/03/GX-Gold-Participant-L.png Community Engagement Guidelines Privacy Policy [email protected] Connect with us on Social Media: © 2000 - 2022, A Network for Grateful Living Website by Briteweb