Daily Question, March 11 What is a favorite memory? 51 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. Japaria1 year agoJapariaAfter leaving a 23 year long relationship/marriage and being more happier than I’ve ever been also being able to buy a home for the first time… I give god all the glory🙏🏽 0 Reply Melissa1 year agoMelissaMy favorite memory was holding my newborn son for the first time after giving birth to him. At that moment I felt a total connection like a string of light to all humanity and felt deep compassion for all which has never gone away. 1 Reply Linda1 year agoLindaSpending the night with my grandma when I was in grade school. I loved helping her cook, and sleeping in a big bed with cozy comforters. I felt loved and appreciated. 1 Reply Malag1 year agoMalagSitting in the back garden when I was a kid in the summer holiday. A bright sunny time with just enough heat to get cozy. I would read books for hours at a time. 2 Reply Emily1 year agoEmilyFor me favorite memories are experiences such as my my experience taking the train from Vancouver to Toronto or remembering fun times on family holidays. I have lots of favorite memories or I guess I should say lots of favorite experiences. I have way too many I could talk about and I hope to build lots of more favorite experiences. 3 Reply Kristi1 year agoKristiA favorite memory is an experience that makes me smile whenever I think about it! 3 Reply Mike1 year agoMikeThe day my wife and I brought our newly whelped golden retriever, Honey, home from her breeder. She’s eleven now, a little slower, a little lower in her energy levels, but still with that puppy attitude. 5 Reply Zenith1 year agoZenithA recent favorite memory is from two years ago or so. 2018 to be exact. I went on an extended trip, the first of my life. It included a visit with my brother and his wife in Colorado Springs. My brother is paralyzed from the neck down. Has a trach so he cannot use his voice without a special device. He can move his eyes and can speak in a whisper to his wife who translates for others. I spent 4 days with them. I had not seen them in around 25 years so it was a special visit. I treasure that memo...A recent favorite memory is from two years ago or so. 2018 to be exact. I went on an extended trip, the first of my life. It included a visit with my brother and his wife in Colorado Springs. My brother is paralyzed from the neck down. Has a trach so he cannot use his voice without a special device. He can move his eyes and can speak in a whisper to his wife who translates for others. I spent 4 days with them. I had not seen them in around 25 years so it was a special visit. I treasure that memory because, now, as we share these memories, he is slowly dying. His body is finally failing. He has been paralyzed for ten years. His mind has been good all the way through though. My two other siblings are going to be there soon and I want to be there too but there are obstacles to that. It is very hard to wait for news of how far along things are with his passing. Anyway, that trip is a treasured memory. Read More8 Reply Don Jones1 year agoDon JonesOne that stands out for me was a “pilgrimage” I did through Thailand and Burma to find the final resting place of my Grandfather who was a POW in WW2. 7 Reply John Tamminga1 year agoJohn TammingaI really like what Br. David said about memory in his 99 Blessings book, “May I know what to forgive and forget and what to retain and treasure, keeping in mind the smallest kindness shown to me and spreading its ripples for a long time.” This phrase about memory has made a profoundly positive impact on the past and current relationships of my life. And helping me train for the “ability to bless.” 7 Reply expati1 year agoexpatiThe Woodstock Festival of Peace and Music, August, 1969. 8 Reply Lauryn1 year agoLaurynMeeting my partner for the first time — and having no idea we would hit it off right away like we did. 7 Reply k'Care-Reena1 year agok'Care-ReenaWHAT IS A FAVORITE MEMORY?I absolutely love this question and how it is delivered. When I first read the question I read What is your favorite memory and began to think of MY favorite memories and found that I could not choose one. When I stepped away from my laptop to get breakfast I look at the question again however the question is not asking me for MY FAVORITE MEMORIES it is asking me describe what a favorite memory can be!!!! [MIND-BLOWN]Now that I truly comprehend the question this is my r...WHAT IS A FAVORITE MEMORY?I absolutely love this question and how it is delivered. When I first read the question I read What is your favorite memory and began to think of MY favorite memories and found that I could not choose one. When I stepped away from my laptop to get breakfast I look at the question again however the question is not asking me for MY FAVORITE MEMORIES it is asking me describe what a favorite memory can be!!!! [MIND-BLOWN]Now that I truly comprehend the question this is my response: A favorite memory is a memory that has extreme emotions attached to it. These emotions have energies that triggers our neurons to react in the form of the energy that is being absorbed. Now where it makes it a favorite memory is the intense emotion attached to it. This explains why some of us have favorite memories that stem from pain. [ FYI= I say grew up and not raised up because every individual is unknowingly passing disempowering beliefs to their loved ones through vibrations and energies therefore we tend to be robots of our family history even if the vibration is negative] Depending on how an individual grew up (their environment etc) we attach the most common energies with pleasure since we are comfortable in that specific presence. So long story short a favorite memory is a memory that has extreme emotions and energies attached to it that brings us familiar feeling (pleasure or pain). This explains why no 2 people have the same memory EVEN IF these 2 individuals are in the same environment. Read More6 Reply Mica1 year agoMicaMy dog Girl – for example, the day she was on the spare bed, looking out at the driveway, barking. I put my arms around her to capture her doggy energy. She seemed surprised – usually I’d tell her to stop barking! 6 Reply Carol1 year agoCarolWhat I am noticing is the question has left me quite emotional. I’m hung up on the word “favorite.”Maybe because many of my cherished memories involve talents I no longer possess. Life is truly about learning how to let go and be here now. 11 Reply Mica1 year agoMicaOh, Carol, how true 3 Reply SK1 year agoSKSweet memories of my childhood when all I had to do was soak up life. Sweet memories with my parents- the loves of my life who I miss dearly to this day but hear their voices in my heart. Memories of standing before the oceans; climbing mountain peaks and walking ridges, Mt. Rainier in the sunrise and the sunset. 8 Reply DeVonna1 year agoDeVonnaI have so few good memories from childhood that the ones I do have are very dear to me. One is of staying the night with my foster grandparents. I had gone to their home that day to help work on the house and my grandmother then invited me to stay the night. It was very unusual for my father to allow me to stay somewhere but surprisingly, he agreed. I helped my grandma make supper and afterward I took a hot bath in their old-fashioned bathtub and put on one of my grandma's flannel nightgowns. It...I have so few good memories from childhood that the ones I do have are very dear to me. One is of staying the night with my foster grandparents. I had gone to their home that day to help work on the house and my grandmother then invited me to stay the night. It was very unusual for my father to allow me to stay somewhere but surprisingly, he agreed. I helped my grandma make supper and afterward I took a hot bath in their old-fashioned bathtub and put on one of my grandma’s flannel nightgowns. It was too big but oh so cozy… After the bath my grandma and I sat in their living room and she gently combed out my long hair while we chatted. I had never had my hair combed by someone else…I was responsible for all my own care from a very young age. It was wonderful. I felt so happy and cared for…a rare moment of pure happiness. Rain fell softly on the windows, she was a darling woman, so kind. She had no idea how miserable my life was in her son’s home; later she told me if she’d known, she would have adopted me. If only…… Read More11 Reply Journey1 year agoJourneyA favorite memory is from when I was very young, of my mom, my dad, my sister and I just lying on our parent's bed and chatting. We would call it our family chit-chats with both my sister and I fighting to place our heads in our mom’s lap. I remember clearly my mum would sigh loudly when she hit the bed and we would always ask her why she did that. She used to say ‘after a long tiring day, it’s so nice to get into bed, a loud sigh is in appreciation of that’. My parents would have to for...A favorite memory is from when I was very young, of my mom, my dad, my sister and I just lying on our parent’s bed and chatting. We would call it our family chit-chats with both my sister and I fighting to place our heads in our mom’s lap. I remember clearly my mum would sigh loudly when she hit the bed and we would always ask her why she did that. She used to say ‘after a long tiring day, it’s so nice to get into bed, a loud sigh is in appreciation of that’. My parents would have to force us to leave the room and go to bed. I now live in a different part of the world from them, on Sunday my sister goes over to see my parents and we video call and have virtual family chit chats. I am an adult now with a 20 year old son and find myself sighing each night when I get into bed :-). Of course my 20 year son and husband wont go for ‘family chit chats’ but I love the occasional times we do spend chatting for hours in various parts of the house. Read More8 Reply Michele1 year agoMicheleI totally relate to the sighing after getting home from a long day at work. bed feels soooo good and comfy. 2 Reply Mike S1 year agoMike SWhen I was a kid we lived in Boston not far from the Boston Common. In winter the Common would get lots of snow and those of you who have been there know there’s a rise which is great for sledding. I took my Flyer and would go sledding and have tons of fun. That is, until one day it was really icy and I was going too fast, out control, and ran into an icy snow bank. Lost my two front teeth. But for that, it was great for a kid in the city. 9 Reply Toni1 year agoToniI'd have to say my favorite memory was in 1982 during a day hike in the Quill (a dormant volcano) on tiny island of St. Eustaitius in the Caribbean Netherlands. The Island is 8 sq. miles. There wasn't much to do on the island if you didn't like nature. So exploring the sites meant getting dirty and living a bit dangerously. We had to start early morning before the temperature grew hot. As we hiked up the steep mountain there were a few sights I will never forget. I saw a school of monarc...I’d have to say my favorite memory was in 1982 during a day hike in the Quill (a dormant volcano) on tiny island of St. Eustaitius in the Caribbean Netherlands. The Island is 8 sq. miles. There wasn’t much to do on the island if you didn’t like nature. So exploring the sites meant getting dirty and living a bit dangerously. We had to start early morning before the temperature grew hot. As we hiked up the steep mountain there were a few sights I will never forget. I saw a school of monarch butterflies fly past us as we moved between the trees on a narrow foot path. There must have been at least two hundred of them. As we rested on a log, I saw a bright green inch worm for the first time and let it move along the palm of my hand. The assent was very steep. As we descended into the mouth of the volcano it was a humid rain forest with fruit trees and other foliage like massive elephant ear plants that were lush and beautiful flowers. I picked two small banana trees that were about two feet tall to plant by my sisters cabin. When I went back to visit 6 months later they were full grown trees with fruit! My sister lived there for two years and I’m sorry I only visited twice. Each time was a totally new adventure. The night sky with the clusters of stars that seemed like you could reach out and touch, the rough sea that lit up at night as the waves hit the shore. (on the rough side of the island) The calm clear warm water on the calm side of the island with visible fish swimming near your feet. Riding a horse in the ocean for the first time. Snorkeling alongside barracuda to take a peak at a sleeping nurse shark. Flying fish that seemed to jump right out of the water as the small tour boat took us around. Digging for blue beads that slaves used to buy their freedom. (I never found any but someone gave me some) I later met a farmer (2014) when I was volunteering at a nearby farm a few years ago who told me she was once was a cook on a cruse ship that toured the islands. She never left the ship but heard about the island from the crew. Something she now regrets. I gave her a few blue beads that she was very grateful to receive. She told me that I would not be as thrilled to see the island today due to commercialism. I’m glad I got to see the tiny island when it was in a more natural state. 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