Daily Question, August 10 What helps me navigate the dark rather than turn away from it? 50 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Holly9 months agoHollyRemembering that darkness holds everything, and can be a protection Remembering that darkness shows the way to candlelight Remembering that the tree offers shade in blistering heat and that in these troubled times we need shade and a reminder that, like the tree, our roots are in the earth and the sky Remembering that the moon held in darkness but recieving light, offers moonlight and enables us to look directly and see two worlds as one (light/dark) Remembering a setting sun is pos...Remembering that darkness holds everything, and can be a protection Remembering that darkness shows the way to candlelight Remembering that the tree offers shade in blistering heat and that in these troubled times we need shade and a reminder that, like the tree, our roots are in the earth and the sky Remembering that the moon held in darkness but recieving light, offers moonlight and enables us to look directly and see two worlds as one (light/dark) Remembering a setting sun is possible to see. Remembering this life was possible through nourishment of darkness whilst in the womb Remembering that sleep supports deep rest and knowing how well i sleep when under ‘dark’ skies. Remembering i tend naturally to sleep as it gets dark and to wake as sun rises Remembering how in the evening switching lights on often results in a sudden fall away of how much i can see Remembering that what you turn away from turns to meet you. Knowing that what helps all navigation through dark and bright times alike, day and night times alike, is a ‘light’ a clarity that can see through both, a presence of heart a heart present with love Read More0 Reply Saq-Kiwi14119 months agoSaq-Kiwi1411the knowledge that you are never alone, someone is always with you, even if you can’t physically see them 0 Reply k'Care-Reena9 months agok'Care-ReenaWHAT HELPS ME NAVIGATE THE DARK RATHER THAN TURN AWAY FROM IT? Focusing on being peaceful. I have noticed that if I focus on the darkness or the concern I activate my nervous response therefore I focus on the light vs the dark. I think of life and all of its beauties and blessings. My focal point becomes gratitude and peace. Concentrating on a peaceful life and way of being allows me to respectfully engage or navigate in "dark" circumstances/energies. 4-2-5 Breathe techq. also allows me ...WHAT HELPS ME NAVIGATE THE DARK RATHER THAN TURN AWAY FROM IT? Focusing on being peaceful. I have noticed that if I focus on the darkness or the concern I activate my nervous response therefore I focus on the light vs the dark. I think of life and all of its beauties and blessings. My focal point becomes gratitude and peace. Concentrating on a peaceful life and way of being allows me to respectfully engage or navigate in “dark” circumstances/energies. 4-2-5 Breathe techq. also allows me to calm my nervous system down. Meditating and yoga have a great impact on keeping me peaceful and calm. Read More2 Reply Drew Blanton9 months agoDrew BlantonI just stay calm and do whatever I need to do. 7 Reply Palm9 months agoPalmMe too, Drew, thanks. 2 Reply Dusty Su9 months agoDusty SuNavigate? Not only navigate, but go to battle with it. A rebellious independence and its deep dislike of being controlled and the controllers who want to contain. Plus, a very Autistic sense of justice that is wired to advocate for the underdog, eventually also myself. A high-school teacher trying to find a niche for the 14-year-old me put my “Bushman’s lawyer” being on the debating team and in the student union. Channel the argumentativeness, he reasoned. Turn so-called weaknesses into ...Navigate? Not only navigate, but go to battle with it. A rebellious independence and its deep dislike of being controlled and the controllers who want to contain. Plus, a very Autistic sense of justice that is wired to advocate for the underdog, eventually also myself. A high-school teacher trying to find a niche for the 14-year-old me put my “Bushman’s lawyer” being on the debating team and in the student union. Channel the argumentativeness, he reasoned. Turn so-called weaknesses into super powers. Monster on the move finally moved on out to educate herself and change the world with love! Decades on, it’s turned out to be a bigger job than I first imagined, ha! Oh, well, I putter along because I’m stubborn! But, the dark nights of my soul still haunt, threaten to extinguish its embers, and I must overcome lest I be overcome. Recognized and faced being the first step. Read More7 Reply Don Jones9 months agoDon JonesWe (naturally) look at the stars – drawn to the light like moths. But if I choose, I see the abundant darkness and nothingness upon which the stars fly. The joy and love permeates everything and nothing. 6 Reply Carol9 months agoCarolI see both dark and light in the universe, so I can expect them both to be part of who I am. This was particularly difficult when I began to face chronic pain. But I found as I turned toward it and embraced that part of me, the pain lost much of its power over me. It taught me loving kindness toward myself and others. 7 Reply dcdeb9 months agodcdebThe belief that the dark is just a part of what is real. Darkness doesn’t always last forever. 5 Reply Hot Sauce9 months agoHot SauceWhile I personally push back against the term “dark” for hard times in life (as this can subconsciously reinforce racist assumptions), I will say that there are things that help me navigate through hard times in life. One of the things that helps me most is looking back on similar difficult times and remembering how I overcame them. By looking to the difficult times I have already overcome, I have a map for when something similar occurs in the future. 7 Reply SK9 months agoSKThe faith that I’ve been there before and the dark always becomes the light at some point. Anything in life is tolerable because it’s all only temporary. I fall back to memories of love and a good life. 4 Reply Mica9 months agoMicaI love darkness – it brings balance to our lives. I’ve written a couple versions of an essay, ‘In praise of darkness.’ It’s so lopsided to say, ‘We are children of the light’ … 6 Reply Michele9 months agoMicheleI love darkness – made me think of vampires, lol. 3 Reply Ose9 months agoOseAlthough it sometimes is really difficult, to keep faith and hope in heart, to believe in His Love always, which always was and always will be, no matter what at all. And as well, what I learned here and through daily practice, to be grateful, no matter what. This gives me hope, and encourages me to love no matter what. And even if I failed to love, which I slowly believe I am an expert in... , to connect with this inner Light deep inside, which will never cease to shine and His all encompassin...Although it sometimes is really difficult, to keep faith and hope in heart, to believe in His Love always, which always was and always will be, no matter what at all. And as well, what I learned here and through daily practice, to be grateful, no matter what. This gives me hope, and encourages me to love no matter what. And even if I failed to love, which I slowly believe I am an expert in… , to connect with this inner Light deep inside, which will never cease to shine and His all encompassing Love, which is always present and true beyond time and space, and which connects us all, this holds me, warms me when I feel almost lost in the dark and guides me, To allow this, to give space to this no matter what. Read More9 Reply pkr9 months agopkrMy faith & trust in a higher power. Faith over Fear. 🙏 7 Reply EvaDemonia9 months agoEvaDemoniaThe thought that I’ve survived so far and will eventually overcome whatever darkness/challenge I am facing right now. For I believe that if I don’t experience any challenges I won’t be able to see the light and appreciate myself more. 6 Reply BasicMarsh9 months agoBasicMarshThe stars — those tiny specks of light that guided explorers in the past. That image helps me metaphorically but the most practical behavior I use is to take a long walk. 6 Reply amacord9 months agoamacordWhen I waver and feel fearful I pause and accept that dark times and difficult moments are always a part of life. I think of people who performed heroic acts even as they too had fear: Rosa Parks, Abe Lincoln, Anita Hill to name a few. I also recall past difficult passages I got through and take comfort knowing that this too shall pass. 7 Reply Antoinette9 months agoAntoinetteWhat other options do we have but to navigate in the dark? We are currently experiencing a pandemic! Who knew we would be living during a pandemic and global climate change of this size ? These are dark times and by using all of our light we must do our best to help each other ! What helps navigate is when we cooperate and love each other with understanding and kindness. 7 Reply sb9 months agosbA perfect question for me today. Like someone below, I am reeling from a bad health diagnosis given only this morning, and part of me wants to give in to dark, but years of practise of finding light in the dark encourages me to go on and all the replies below perfectly embody my feelings - a timely reminder that I have learnt I am more resilient than I thought, that I have come through many dark times, that dark enables the light to shine - that "all shall be well". Thank you. I go on my way muc...A perfect question for me today. Like someone below, I am reeling from a bad health diagnosis given only this morning, and part of me wants to give in to dark, but years of practise of finding light in the dark encourages me to go on and all the replies below perfectly embody my feelings – a timely reminder that I have learnt I am more resilient than I thought, that I have come through many dark times, that dark enables the light to shine – that “all shall be well”. Thank you. I go on my way much cheered and with love and hope in my heart. Read More13 Reply Ose9 months agoOseFrom my heart I wish you to become well again, dear sb. May you be wrapped in the warmth and loving kindness of friends and loved ones in this difficult time, and may faith and hope always be with you. May His Love and Light shine and guide you to healing. I lit a candle for you here. 8 Reply Katrina9 months agoKatrinaLike a few others have mentioned - knowing I have wandered in the dark before and have found light again. But I am mindful, as I walk life's journey with my grandchildren especially, how hard it is to walk beside them when they don't have this life experience. Advice and platitudes about this don't help, for they do not have the life experience upon which to trust that his is true. So I do my best to share my life stories and hope they catch my drift, as it were. They are watching and listening,...Like a few others have mentioned – knowing I have wandered in the dark before and have found light again. But I am mindful, as I walk life’s journey with my grandchildren especially, how hard it is to walk beside them when they don’t have this life experience. Advice and platitudes about this don’t help, for they do not have the life experience upon which to trust that his is true. So I do my best to share my life stories and hope they catch my drift, as it were. They are watching and listening, even when they don’t seem to be. Read More6 Reply Cathie9 months agoCathieFaith – that I will pass through this perceived darkness, stronger for it. That fear is not holy, that life is messy, that there will be a light – I just may not see it at present. And remembering the words of Julian of Norwich – “All shall be well…for there is a force of love moving through the universe that holds us fast and will never let us go!” 9 Reply 1 2 Next » My Private Gratitude Journal Write an entry in your private gratefulness journal Get Started This site is brought to you by A Network for Grateful Living, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. All donations are fully tax deductible in the U.S.A. DONATE https://gratefulness.org/content/uploads/2015/03/GX-Gold-Participant-L.png Community Engagement Guidelines Privacy Policy [email protected] Connect with us on Social Media: © 2000 - 2022, A Network for Grateful Living Website by Briteweb