Daily Question, June 10 What happens when you stop seeking something more, better, or different? 23 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. Randy Shinn1 year agoRandy ShinnMany times things really settle down….allowing things just to be there and happen… 0 Reply Kevin1 year agoKevinWhenever I stop seeking something, more, better or different I usually find it! 4 Reply Grateful_Undead1 year agoGrateful_UndeadI then realize that I can settle in with all that I do have, which more times than not, is more than enough to sustain and keep me. 3 Reply Nina1 year agoNinaI use to get depressed or feel defeated. Now, I feel grateful for what I have and content for where I’m at in life and for what I have accomplished. 5 Reply Shaun Baun1 year agoShaun BaunCongrats and well done. To be aware and notice that gratefulness is a huge accomplishment in itself…… I know that it was for me. 1 Reply Nina1 year agoNinaThank you Shaun! 0 Reply Ose1 year agoOseKevin, I am missing you here today. Hope you are well. Blessings to you, dear friend. 2 Reply Ose1 year agoOseThen I am open to the moment, which is. Timeline stop. … and then? I don’t know, I must say. 2 Reply AeKatrina1 year agoAeKatrinaWhen I stop seeking something more, better or different, I find that nothing in life has ever been better than the now. Usually he goal had not been reached , enough . We strive for all we cannot have. Today makes yesterday a dream or nightmare, and tomorrow the same. When always reaching for more I find it is good to a degree, if done for the right reasons, and that is to 'serve.' We are here to serve others. When we reach out, and 'give 'we 'receive' the more, better and different. Especiall...When I stop seeking something more, better or different, I find that nothing in life has ever been better than the now. Usually he goal had not been reached , enough . We strive for all we cannot have. Today makes yesterday a dream or nightmare, and tomorrow the same. When always reaching for more I find it is good to a degree, if done for the right reasons, and that is to ‘serve.’ We are here to serve others. When we reach out, and ‘give ‘we ‘receive’ the more, better and different. Especially and probably only if done with love. If my seeking was done for selfish reasons, it never will be enough . Peace and love Is never found reaching for what you may not ever find. Read More3 Reply Hot Sauce1 year agoHot SauceTo be honest, I don’t think there is a problem with seeking more, better, or different. It is human nature to want to build off of what is already there and go further. The real issue is when we start grasping for more, better, and different-and want it right now or else, thank you very much! This can lead us to suffer unnecessarily when we lack patience in waiting for the things we seek. I don’t think seeking is the issue; rather, it is impatience with receiving what we seek. 4 Reply Andrea1 year agoAndreaI start to enjoy the present moment, that is, the present situation, and I even learn to be grateful for the possitive but also for the negative aspects of it because they are there to teach me something, there´s something I must learn. 3 Reply Elizabeth M Jones1 year agoElizabeth M JonesI realize that I have in abundance. The abundance of goods, of friends, of the love of God. 3 Reply Karmit1 year agoKarmitWhen I stop seeking something more, better, or different I discover contentment and acceptance. This results in peace and the end of seeking happiness from the outside world. Good golly, I wish I could do this consistently! ? 7 Reply Mica1 year agoMicaNot-seeking is a comfortable place. I’m oldish and often live there, happily. 4 Reply Jeana1 year agoJeanaIt can go either way. The trick is to have discretion. As a species we are still evolving, we must seek better, smarter, kinder, wiser … otherwise we stagnate or worse, regress. However … on a personal level seeking ever more and more 'stuff' is greed, and seeking 'different' just for novelty is maybe a symptom of boredom, pointing out a need to get involved in a greater cause than one's self. Pay close attention to what it is that you want more of, or better, or different, and why. The w...It can go either way. The trick is to have discretion. As a species we are still evolving, we must seek better, smarter, kinder, wiser … otherwise we stagnate or worse, regress. However … on a personal level seeking ever more and more ‘stuff’ is greed, and seeking ‘different’ just for novelty is maybe a symptom of boredom, pointing out a need to get involved in a greater cause than one’s self. Pay close attention to what it is that you want more of, or better, or different, and why. The world needs your energy, passion, and commitment. We shouldn’t become complacent; but if the focus is ego-based and self-serving, then this kind of striving will not make one happier or improve the world; it’s a dead-end. Work for the greater good of all and your efforts will matter. Although (in some circumstances) it’s true if we strive less we’ll have more peace, there is another way to look at seeking and striving. We have limited time on Earth and lots of problems. People who work to fix problems, lift up all humanity. It’s not everyone’s journey to be a ‘fixer’ and that’s O.K. too. Your personal satisfaction regarding seeking and striving also depends on how you view outcomes. Give your projects your best effort, then let go, ultimately all outcomes are in God’s hands. Find the balance between seeking improvements and accepting the realities of the now. Read More6 Reply Tom1 year agoTomIf I were truly able to stop seeking something more, better, or different I would have more acceptance for what is happening before me. I would experience more peace. Stepping out of my craving mind is a difficult thing to do...it always seems that there should be something more, better or different. Or, a type of thinking that says when this or that happens the way I wish I will be happy. I know this is not how it is and I just add to my dis-ease by fighting against things I do not like, but ar...If I were truly able to stop seeking something more, better, or different I would have more acceptance for what is happening before me. I would experience more peace. Stepping out of my craving mind is a difficult thing to do…it always seems that there should be something more, better or different. Or, a type of thinking that says when this or that happens the way I wish I will be happy. I know this is not how it is and I just add to my dis-ease by fighting against things I do not like, but are there just the same. Read More6 Reply Carla1 year agoCarlaThis happens now and then; when I find a dark wet wool cloak of a seasonal depression has overshadowed my being, and I know it is time. Time to check in with my homeopath and a few trusted others. Time to listen more earnestly to God in nature and in others. Energy returns & the “seeker” is back on track and the soaked cloak of inertia has been cast off. 8 Reply Debra1 year agoDebraPeace. Acceptance that everything is as it should be. I must admit I struggle with seeking what I think might answer my loneliness . And it is really all within me the moment I give myself fully to God. Life when I do that is in the moment and free of strife. Everyday I get a wee bit better at doing this. My hope is that I gain momentum and live through love not fear. 6 Reply pkr1 year agopkrDebra, Thank you for your beautiful response. Ah yes, accepting that everything is as it should be, is a hard one for me too. Letting go and trusting in a higher power, is an ongoing challenge for me. I need to remind myself of this often as I go thru life’s ups and downs. I wish you peace and love on your journey. ❤️? 2 Reply Deb1 year agoDebPerhaps the important words here are “stop seeking”. It gives the feel of frenetic energy, busyness. If we stand still, it is possible that more, better, different will find us. 7 Reply Wiltrud1 year agoWiltrudAs I tend to see in others what they do better or more efficiently than me, I could stop this and honestly should do it on the spot. I might be happier then. 5 Reply Michele1 year agoMicheleI can’t relate to this because I always like to seek something different or better. Just yesterday I went to the movies and saw something I normally wouldn’t go see and enjoyed myself. 5 Reply Anneclaire1 year agoAnneclaireAh! I might actually then be able to be present to the moment I am living! 5 Reply My Private Gratitude Journal Write an entry in your private gratefulness journal Get Started This site is brought to you by A Network for Grateful Living, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. All donations are fully tax deductible in the U.S.A. DONATE https://gratefulness.org/content/uploads/2015/03/GX-Gold-Participant-L.png Community Engagement Guidelines Privacy Policy [email protected] Connect with us on Social Media: © 2000 - 2021, A Network for Grateful Living Website by Briteweb