Daily Question, June 10 What do I need to face right now? 49 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. reality8 months agorealityThe end of my life and what should be done by me to end notseeism, totalitarianism and supremacy that are dictating the extinction of humanity? 🙂 reality 2 Reply Gini Smith8 months agoGini SmithI think about the same things and wish I wasn’t spending my golden years with these troubling thoughts 1 Reply reality8 months agorealityIt's very sad. Exactly, if we don't exercise the astronomically increased responsibility to save life, Earth, placed on our shoulders by our fore-bearers, how can we expect our kids to exercise responsibility or his Siamese twin sister freedom will wither like an unused muscle as well. La machine's devolving every coming generation exponentially more, they actually believe we can live on Mars; humanity's extinction is nigh. We must make time for ourselves and those close to us, for no person ...It’s very sad. Exactly, if we don’t exercise the astronomically increased responsibility to save life, Earth, placed on our shoulders by our fore-bearers, how can we expect our kids to exercise responsibility or his Siamese twin sister freedom will wither like an unused muscle as well. La machine’s devolving every coming generation exponentially more, they actually believe we can live on Mars; humanity’s extinction is nigh. We must make time for ourselves and those close to us, for no person is an island; no? Thanx for all you do; have a great day 🙂 reality Read More1 Reply KC8 months agoKCStanding rooted, connected and open, whole in / to the present as it is; showing, committing and engaging fully as the humble human I am called to be. Accepting, trusting, allowing life, people, things to be as they are. 1 Reply Present Moment8 months agoPresent MomentI need a new mattress 1 Reply Malag8 months agoMalagThat I can learn from my children. Every generation has a different perspective than the last. I can have a fixed mind, rejecting their views, or I can be receptive to understand and gain new insight. My choice. I choose the latter today. 2 Reply Shellan8 months agoShellanhow I spend my money how I spend my time 1 Reply Heidi Bradbury8 months agoHeidi BradburyContinued progress with self love, boundaries and empowerment 4 Reply sunnypatti8 months agosunnypattiThat I have been forced to slow down in a time where I really don't want to! We are moving into our new home this weekend, and have a trip planned to see family next week (crazy, I know, but we thought we would have been moved a month ago). I found myself in debilitating pain at work yesterday afternoon, which ended in me having my appendix removed early this morning. So no lifting for me. But others CAN lift and work will survive without me. And I was also forced to face my fear of surgery, ...That I have been forced to slow down in a time where I really don’t want to! We are moving into our new home this weekend, and have a trip planned to see family next week (crazy, I know, but we thought we would have been moved a month ago). I found myself in debilitating pain at work yesterday afternoon, which ended in me having my appendix removed early this morning. So no lifting for me. But others CAN lift and work will survive without me. And I was also forced to face my fear of surgery, as I have always said that I would never have surgery on this body. Hey, I made it to 47, and at least it wasn’t major surgery. Anyhow, I am so used to taking power walks daily with our dog, practicing yoga, surfing, and working really hard, and now I can’t do any of that. But it’s only temporary. And, apparently, it could have been MUCH worse. I’m glad I listened to my gut (pun intended!) and allowed my boyfriend to take me to the ER. I just realized I was and am still having to face my belief system. While it has worked for me for many years, I also need to remind myself that I am not in control of everything. And that bodies are not built to last forever. I do, however, still plan on being an old lady surfer someday! Read More2 Reply Gini Smith8 months agoGini SmithBlessings to you for a speedy recovery. You will be fine 0 Reply Pollyanna Gladwell8 months agoPollyanna GladwellWishing you a speedy recovery, Sunnypatti, and here’s to old lady surfing! I hope you enjoy your forced time of rest. (I ‘m a poor typist and I typed the ‘f’ before the ‘r’ in surfing and spell check wanted to change it to “suffering”! I was reminded that in this life pain is inevitable but suffering is optional. Gratefulness is the tool that makes that possible for me when I Stop, Look and Go.) Blessings. 3 Reply sunnypatti8 months agosunnypattiThank you, Pollyanna <3 Pretty sore this morning, but that was expected. What you said about suffering is so true! It reminds me of a moment of enlightenment I had years ago... my ex-husband's aunt (who knew every detail about that toxic relationship) once said to me that "some people are just meant to suffer in this life" and something about how my rewards in heaven would be greater than others because of that. A light turned on in my mind, and that was the moment I knew I ...Thank you, Pollyanna <3 Pretty sore this morning, but that was expected. What you said about suffering is so true! It reminds me of a moment of enlightenment I had years ago… my ex-husband's aunt (who knew every detail about that toxic relationship) once said to me that "some people are just meant to suffer in this life" and something about how my rewards in heaven would be greater than others because of that. A light turned on in my mind, and that was the moment I knew I had to find a way to stop the suffering…because I knew that God did NOT, in fact, want that for me or anyone else. Suffering IS optional, and my spiritual practice and daily gratitude has helped me heal and find a better life. Peace! Read More1 Reply Pollyanna Gladwell8 months agoPollyanna GladwellLovely to hear your experience of the epiphany you had as a result of the aunt’s comment. I hope that the pain passes soon and the move goes well and you have a wonderful trip when you can get away. A trip! I had a short one last weekend – just an hour away – but a trip! I sure appreciate more than I did before the lockdown. xx 0 Reply 8 months agolooking into the mirror of my life I see times of tragedy and pain and loss and failure and times of boredom and wasting time and times of Love, grace, beauty and support and kindness… just as we all do. facing this I see the importance of wise choices. to acknowledge that I have choices is looking towards the abundance of what is given. that’s a good basis. next I imagine a future that represents my aspirations and values, feeling abundance inside myself. now I am ready to the take next...looking into the mirror of my life I see times of tragedy and pain and loss and failure and times of boredom and wasting time and times of Love, grace, beauty and support and kindness… just as we all do. facing this I see the importance of wise choices. to acknowledge that I have choices is looking towards the abundance of what is given. that’s a good basis. next I imagine a future that represents my aspirations and values, feeling abundance inside myself. now I am ready to the take next step, I take it with courage rooted in what I know to be true and with humbleness for I have no idea of what will come. I feel connected to the circle of friends here, to the circle of friends in my life and to all human beings for we all share this longing to create a good meaningful life. Read More2 Reply Hot Sauce8 months agoHot SauceRight now, I am facing my past traumas and the fears it has created and learning to cope with those traumas and fears. I think that, by facing this, I will grow in resilience and come out with what some psychologists call “post-traumatic growth.” 4 Reply Linda8 months agoLindaMy husband lives with chronic pain after a botched surgery, and it is wearing him down. I have had to accept that he is probably not going to get much better, and that I need to expect less from him than in the past. He was always so capable around the house, and especially with our computers. I do my best to help him feel comfortable, and make time for him to talk about the pain and other things when he wants to. (He is a man of few words). It is devastating to watch someone suffer and I try t...My husband lives with chronic pain after a botched surgery, and it is wearing him down. I have had to accept that he is probably not going to get much better, and that I need to expect less from him than in the past. He was always so capable around the house, and especially with our computers. I do my best to help him feel comfortable, and make time for him to talk about the pain and other things when he wants to. (He is a man of few words). It is devastating to watch someone suffer and I try to keep my sad and scared feelings at bay for his sake. He is a brave man and able to endure far more than I could. Read More3 Reply Heidi Bradbury8 months agoHeidi BradburyMy husband has a muscle degenerative disease. I know your sadness and fear… 1 Reply Carol8 months agoCarolI was out early this morning watering my herbs, tomatoes and some young zinnia plants. I hope they will be blooming by July. The wind was ferocious, gusting at about 40 miles an hour. As the wind-driven water from my hose was spraying water on me as much as it was on my plants, I noticed how nature just goes with the flow. Tree limps whipped in the wind, my plants swayed rhythmically, birds still visited my bird feeder. They were all facing the wind but not fighting it. Last Sunday was the C...I was out early this morning watering my herbs, tomatoes and some young zinnia plants. I hope they will be blooming by July. The wind was ferocious, gusting at about 40 miles an hour. As the wind-driven water from my hose was spraying water on me as much as it was on my plants, I noticed how nature just goes with the flow. Tree limps whipped in the wind, my plants swayed rhythmically, birds still visited my bird feeder. They were all facing the wind but not fighting it. Last Sunday was the Christian celebration of Pentecost and I was reminded of the scripture that compares the coming of the Spirit with a “sound like the blowing of a violent wind.” (Acts I) At this time, there appears to be a violent wind blowing throughout the whole world. It’s carrying both a physical and a cultural virus. Could we be experiencing a visit from the Spirit? Is this the only way S/He can get our attention? I don’t know about you but in so many ways, I feel helpless. I don’t want to face this reality. I don’t want to take any responsibility for it. But I know in my heart that we all need to be willing to take a personal inventory. For example, I know I should stop eating so much meat. Chickens never see daylight; their feet never touch the ground. Pigs are forced to reproduce at unrealistic rates and are raised in deplorable conditions. If you have ever driven by a cattle feeding lot, you know the stench that fills the air from the feces in the confining pens in which they are force fed. Not to mention the air pollution their flatulence causes or the inhumane way some are slaughtered. Experts are telling us that if we do not change the way we treat our environment, we can expect more Pandemics. And it doesn’t take experts for us to know that we are failing to treat each other with respect and compassion. The protests generated in the last couple of weeks speak volumes. I got the latest AARP Bulletin in the mail this week and a recent AARP survey of voters over 50 was featured. When asked what one thing matters most when voting for a candidate, these were the answers. The answers provided by older voters like me have given me much food for thought: 61% Their stance on the issues I care about? 10% Experience 10% Strong electability and capability of staging a winning campaign 9% Political party affiliation 9% Character or personality traits (2020 Harris-AARP Survey of 3,500 over 50 registered voters) I’m not sure we realize what we are facing internally in our own country and world-wide. Apparently a candidate with money for a winning campaign, a candidate who caters to our comfort zone is what matters. Experience and character are not important. (Sigh) If there is one thing that my long life has taught me, it is that we escape nothing. The communion of saints is filled with sinners! We are all responsible for “what is.” And if I were to die tomorrow, what I do today could make a difference. Read More5 Reply Cathie8 months agoCathieI need to face the reality that some things or people may never change and it is I who must make the decision to stand ground, change and adapt or depart – each options done with love. 1 Reply 8 months agoeven mountains crumble and stars are born and die…all is in constant flux, be sure, the same is with the people and circumstances you face in your statement 1 Reply Heidi Bradbury8 months agoHeidi BradburyOh my gosh… me too! 1 Reply Debra8 months agoDebraI must face that for the first time in 40+ years I will be alone in my household in the earthly realm. Thank goodness I am never alone spiritually! And my guidance for receptivity for what spirit has in mind for me is open. 4 Reply Pilgrim8 months agoPilgrimMy thoughts and prayers are with you, Debra. 2 Reply Debra8 months agoDebraThank you, Pilgrim. 2 Reply amacord8 months agoamacordBoredom.. It’s a fact of life and under SIP and Covid for the past 3 months I am still at war with boredom. Boredom is toxic for me, I go to negative thoughts and actions. I realize that I am brainwashed into thinking every day must be 10……not possible, there are many days that never break 6 or 7….but those days have value. I will befriend the boredom because fighting it has exhausted me. Blessings all around to each of you. 3 Reply Dusty Su8 months agoDusty SuAs I posted yesterday, I am anxious about traveling out of the USA and leaving my boyfriend there this week. I am unable to return to my home of 30 years in Thailand and that means the loss of a long term visa. I will be quarantined for 14 days by the Australian government when I arrive there without outside contact except for WiFi. Then what? So many new scary variables. I am terrified on some levels, and trying to rise up to live in this moment, and respond, not react. To trust and have joy an...As I posted yesterday, I am anxious about traveling out of the USA and leaving my boyfriend there this week. I am unable to return to my home of 30 years in Thailand and that means the loss of a long term visa. I will be quarantined for 14 days by the Australian government when I arrive there without outside contact except for WiFi. Then what? So many new scary variables. I am terrified on some levels, and trying to rise up to live in this moment, and respond, not react. To trust and have joy anyway. NOT EASY, but worth the efforts. Just maybe I can find a pocket of peace in this moment. Progress, not perfection. We do our best and that starts with at least being aware there are options of attitudes. All I have that is not fearful, is this moment. I trust that each following one will work out well. Since yesterday, I have decided to reframe this time as a courageous adventure filled with excitement and opportunity. Read More7 Reply Debra8 months agoDebraDusty Su: Strength to you. Brave of you to be able to reframe this time. It certainly is a courageous adventure. God speed! 3 Reply Dusty Su8 months agoDusty SuThank you Debra, much appreciated. Onward! Upward! Ho, ho, ha, ha, ha! 2 Reply Mark Piper8 months agoMark PiperMy sins and the systems of my life, which I control, which facilitate sin. Hard to demand an improvement of the world, of others, when I have yet to remove that rod in my own eye. 1 Reply Jackie8 months agoJackieI need to face my fear of doing or saying the wrong thing which only results in inaction. I need to face the fact that I may face confrontation. I need to face humans who think differently than I do and who aren’t afraid to say so. 3 Reply Sol Borchardt8 months agoSol Borchardti need to face a new challenging job assigment in the middle of super busy day with homeschooling of 3 kids and 24hs at home with them. balancing work and motherhood with content. my prayers for all of you in phsycal pain in this board today. 4 Reply Katrina8 months agoKatrinaThat my body does not want or need the kind or amount of food I have been feeding it during this pandemic seclusion. 3 Reply Pollyanna Gladwell8 months agoPollyanna GladwellYou speak my mind, Katrina. Thank you. I just read that a Panda feeds for approximately 12 hours per day. This is the same as an adult at home under quarantine, which is why we call it a “Pandemic”! I know the overeating is a serious issue, but this made me laugh and am determined to cut down. xx 3 Reply Michele8 months agoMicheleTrying to keep a positive attitude under a lot of stress. 1 Reply 1 2 Next » My Private Gratitude Journal Write an entry in your private gratefulness journal Get Started This site is brought to you by A Network for Grateful Living, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. All donations are fully tax deductible in the U.S.A. DONATE https://gratefulness.org/content/uploads/2015/03/GX-Gold-Participant-L.png Community Engagement Guidelines Privacy Policy [email protected] Connect with us on Social Media: © 2000 - 2021, A Network for Grateful Living Website by Briteweb