Daily Question, March 14 What small changes could I make that would make a big difference in my life or the lives of others? 33 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. ADP3 months agoADPA small change I could make is to be more tolerant with adults. I work with children and God has blessed me to have abundance of patience with them, but when it comes to adults I expect to much I guess. I could make more of a difference in the lives of adults and children if I could be more composure and understanding towards others. 1 Reply Malag3 months agoMalagA little more tenderness could help. 4 Reply Love Abundantly3 months agoLove AbundantlyTelling someone I love them. 3 Reply Blossom3 months agoBlossomIf you are happy and you know it clap your hands….. 5 Reply Michele3 months agoMicheleloved this, made me smile. 0 Reply Mica3 months agoMicaWhat fun, Blossom – that takes me way back! 🙂 2 Reply Blossom3 months agoBlossomWell, thank you Mica, it has been long overdue. Best to you 3 Reply Don Jones3 months agoDon JonesTel people how I honestly feel. 6 Reply Chester3 months agoChesterThink less, act more and sometimes, just be – from a somewhat compulsive overthinker! 6 Reply Linda3 months agoLindaTalk less, listen more. 🙂 6 Reply Elaine3 months agoElaineEchoing others who mention pausing before speaking I’m reminded of my post from a couple of years ago to practice the Quaker’s direction: Does this need to be said? Does this need to be said now? Does this need to be said by me? When I practice this I am more likely to be a constructive contributor to the conversation. 7 Reply Laura3 months agoLauraThank you for that bit of Quaker wisdom, Elaine. 3 Reply Butterfly3 months agoButterflyI need to rest more and stay in the present moment and not worry about the future. That way I will be a calmer presence for those around me, which I have found in the past has a knock-on effect. The calmness is catching! 7 Reply Barb C3 months agoBarb CReturn to my practice of walking twice around the block between the many meetings in my days, listening to birds, looking at the sky, smiling and waving at neighbors. I lost it when I injured my knees taking up running (and promptly dropping it again) and then in the hurly-burly of a very intense season in my work world. This respite will recharge my batteries and the people in my meetings will get more of my attention and energy. 7 Reply Celeste3 months agoCelesteStarting each day with gratitude. Focusing on what I have, rather than what I don’t, makes me more patient, loving, and content. 9 Reply Katie3 months agoKatieTaking time out of everyday, no matter how busy I am, to connect, energise and show love, respect and kindness. 7 Reply Carla3 months agoCarlaReturning to the discipline of daily walking & having regular sleep times would help me and in turn others. I’d be a more “rested me” to interact with. Others would see less of me again and hopefully for a longer time frame., 4 Reply Nelson3 months agoNelsonSimply checking in more often. Sometimes work and life becomes so busy, checking in with a loved one is definitely needed to maintain that relationship. 5 Reply Laura3 months agoLauraLike Mahua Seth’s response below, I could insert a pause before speaking or acting. Doing either on impulse, even well-intentioned, is unwise. 5 Reply Carol3 months agoCarolLaura, Your post reminded me of this saying: “Think once before you act, twice before you speak and three times before you post on Facebook.” Contemplative Monk It’s also taught in Toltec Wisdom. 4 Reply Laura3 months agoLauraSound advice, Carol! 2 Reply Mahua Seth3 months agoMahua SethTo pause before I react … to any situation, conversation or event. 7 Reply Anonymous3 months agoAnonymousWhen I am busy “evaluating” myself or others, I can stop, look, go.. 3 Reply Iamme3 months agoIammeAs I get older the reality of less time ahead than what has gone before is coming sharply into focus. How I spend my time is under my control, I am stepping away from the time wasting lure of social media and the virtual world to direct my time towards the real world and in person social connections. I need to focus on activities that are enriching such as cooking, art, music, nature and continue to learn and create. Obviously me being here on this site is a virtual world, but it is a nourishin...As I get older the reality of less time ahead than what has gone before is coming sharply into focus. How I spend my time is under my control, I am stepping away from the time wasting lure of social media and the virtual world to direct my time towards the real world and in person social connections. I need to focus on activities that are enriching such as cooking, art, music, nature and continue to learn and create. Obviously me being here on this site is a virtual world, but it is a nourishing life enhancing one, qualities somewhat lacking in the Facebook, Twitter, Instagram world, obviously there are exceptions but those places can be very unhealthy places to hang out and use your precious time on. Read More7 Reply EJP3 months agoEJPI need to listen more consciously to what others are saying….their words are important to all. 5 Reply Kevin3 months agoKevinThis is a good question for me today, as it just so happens that I know what these changes need to be and I’m slowly working on them now. For starters, I am back at the gym, let the man-sculpting begin! 8 Reply 1 2 Next » My Private Gratitude Journal Write an entry in your private gratefulness journal Get Started This site is brought to you by A Network for Grateful Living, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. All donations are fully tax deductible in the U.S.A. DONATE https://gratefulness.org/content/uploads/2015/03/GX-Gold-Participant-L.png Community Engagement Guidelines Privacy Policy [email protected] Connect with us on Social Media: © 2000 - 2022, A Network for Grateful Living Website by Briteweb