Daily Question, February 14 In the garden of life, what have the weeds taught you? 61 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. k'Care-Reena2 months agok'Care-ReenaThe weeds is apart of the garden and has it’s value and beauty. The weeds tend to be neglecting possibly because of a negative association however I am a strong believer that EVERYTHING IN LIFE has value. The weeds taught me not to be so judgmental as well as give me a sense of awareness and appreciation for all stages of life, or shal I say all plants of life hahaha 1 Reply Malag2 months agoMalagLooking at this from an internal perspective; Are there weeds? Weeds suggests rejection. I like to see things that I reject nothing. I might not invite some of my more challenging guests of my mind to tea but I can allow them to be. 4 Reply Blessings on Blessings2 months agoBlessings on BlessingsTry to meet someone new each week. 3 Reply Michael Hartland2 months agoMichael HartlandSome of our “weeds” have been put there by other people hurting us. We then have to learn to live with the various hurts, somehow, withouth giving in to the negative thoughts that they can give rise to. This can be a great personal challenge but there is help to be had, and we also can learn to get better at making choices that are good both for us and for those we live and work with. 3 Reply Isabel2 months agoIsabelThe weeds have taught me to always continue pushing forward. Growth happens constantly but it’s an amazing feeling to experience. 4 Reply Kristi2 months agoKristiThe weeds have taught me everything! Weeds have taught me things will get better, they have made me more aware, the weeds have helped me appreciate the mundane. I wouldn’t be who I am without the weeds! 5 Reply pkr2 months agopkrTake the good with the bad. Happy Valentine All ❤️ 5 Reply Lauryn2 months agoLaurynThe weeds will always be there in some form. You can pull them out…stash them away…but the still come back in some form. The key to a fulfilling and prosperous garden is to maintain the weeds, keep them at bay, but understand that you can’t ever fully keep them out of the garden. Sure, there are chemicals that will kill the weeds, but that’s only artificially masking the problem. Hard work and self truth and understanding is the answer. 5 Reply Judy...Shalom2 months agoJudy...ShalomWeeds are always present in our life. It’s OUR CHOICE how we will live with them. Focusing on our past, the future, or basking in the love of today. Life is ever so short & I choose to relish the remainder of my life ignoring the weeds & living today!! 7 Reply Judith Boardman2 months agoJudith BoardmanWeeds are tough, resilient, popping up anywhere with their own beauty and individuality. I don’t have to be a beautiful, sweet-smelling rose planted in a border, I can be a dandelion, poking through a crack in the pavement. 6 Reply KC2 months agoKCAccept. Reframe. Squint – and be open to the gold! (or whatever shimmering shade it chooses to show up in!) … Also, be wary of judgements, labels and perceptions. I love the wildness and unpredictability of an English garden or a meadow of wildflowers, rather something more manicured … 7 Reply Holly in Ohio2 months agoHolly in Ohio“be wary of judgements, labels and perceptions” … I love this. 2 Reply KC2 months agoKCYes – our darn minds can get us in such trouble if we let them! 🙂 … 1 Reply Mica2 months agoMicaI love weeds 6 Reply Malag2 months agoMalagYes Mica. Fully and concisely is my view. 3 Reply Amy2 months agoAmyJust like in my literal garden, I try to get rid of ALL the weeds, which is really an impossibility but my perfectionistic tendencies make me try. I need to focus on maybe getting rid of the most toxic, noxious ones and let the rest go. 6 Reply Antoinette2 months agoAntoinetteWeeds are beautiful too! 5 Reply Linda2 months agoLindaI have never thought of weeds being useful, but these comments opened my eyes. I grew up pulling large, noxious weeds out of the dry ground of the southwest, and that is all I remember about weeds. I will now pay more attention–I live in a very different part of the country now and perhaps I can learn something from my weeds here! 8 Reply Elaine2 months agoElaineBloom where I am planted. 10 Reply Pilgrim2 months agoPilgrimTenacity. Root deeply and reach for the light. 11 Reply Holly in Ohio2 months agoHolly in OhioWhen I was teaching volunteer gardeners and classes, I'd show them how to recognize their weeds while they were weeding, because most of what we saw (though not all) were edible: lambs quarters (aka wild spinach), purslane, chickweed, clover, amaranth, dandelion, curly dock, sheep sorrel, plantain, wood sorrel, garlic mustard, purple dead nettle, burdock, pineapple weed, quick weed, thistle, duck weed (grows in ponds), violets, and more. Weeds are also usually the first plants to come in when y...When I was teaching volunteer gardeners and classes, I’d show them how to recognize their weeds while they were weeding, because most of what we saw (though not all) were edible: lambs quarters (aka wild spinach), purslane, chickweed, clover, amaranth, dandelion, curly dock, sheep sorrel, plantain, wood sorrel, garlic mustard, purple dead nettle, burdock, pineapple weed, quick weed, thistle, duck weed (grows in ponds), violets, and more. Weeds are also usually the first plants to come in when you have poor soil, and that is because they remediate the soil… they make it better. In life I would like to see the “weeds” for their value, and not as something that doesn’t belong there. Read More11 Reply Lauryn2 months agoLaurynYes! Totally planning for my first garden this spring! 3 Reply Holly in Ohio2 months agoHolly in OhioI’m so happy for you!!!!!!!! 🙂 2 Reply Carol2 months agoCarolHolly, I learn something every time you share! 3 Reply Holly in Ohio2 months agoHolly in Ohiothank you! 2 Reply KC2 months agoKCWow, Holly. Thank you! I had no idea … ‘weeds are … usually the first plants to come in when you have poor soil … they remediate the soil .. and make it better.’ Your post gives me the courage to invite my wanna be gardener back to the garden this year, and give it another go! 🙏🏻🐾🌱… 5 Reply Mica2 months agoMicaWow – weeds make the soil better – thanks! 3 Reply Holly in Ohio2 months agoHolly in OhioThere is a great book where I learned this... it's called, "Paradise Lot." It is written by a guy named Eric Toensmeier, who is well known in permaculture circles for having written "The Edible Food Forest" and "Gaia's Garden." Eric and his partner deliberately chose a poor property to revive. It even had lead in the soil, bare ground, and a few tenacious weeds. But weeds, he explained, are often able to get nutrients where other plants can't. They might, for example, have a "tap root" (thi...There is a great book where I learned this… it’s called, “Paradise Lot.” It is written by a guy named Eric Toensmeier, who is well known in permaculture circles for having written “The Edible Food Forest” and “Gaia’s Garden.” Eric and his partner deliberately chose a poor property to revive. It even had lead in the soil, bare ground, and a few tenacious weeds. But weeds, he explained, are often able to get nutrients where other plants can’t. They might, for example, have a “tap root” (think dandelion, thistle, burdock, dock, comfrey)… so these plants can dig down deep in hard packed soil to find nutrients and they bring them up closer to the surface, which allow other plants with shorter roots to get those nutrients, too. Several of those plants also are “nitrogen fixers.” Nitrogen is needed by all plants, but some plants, like clover, vetch, comfrey and beans, are able with the help of bacteria, to make more than enough nitrogen, and can feed it back into the soil for other plants to use. Many weeds, also, are fabulous pollinator attractors… clover, milkweed, catmint, thistle, dandelion… loved by bees, butterflies, and other pollinators. He (Eric) and his partner in only a few years were able to reduce the lead by planting certain plants and turn the tiny property into an Eden, producing lots of their food, and now with safe levels of lead in the soil. I came away from this book with a much deeper respect for how every bit of life on our planet has a purpose and role, whether we, as humans, understand it or not. I guess that also goes for ourselves as individuals… whether or not we understand our own purpose, we have one. Read More5 Reply Mica2 months agoMicaThanks, Holly in Ohio – that’s especially exciting, about getting rid of the lead in the soil. And that’s a good point, about clover and such, fixing nitrogen. 3 Reply Roger2 months agoRogerIn my faith community, I’ve noticed that although I am not an addict, I seem to enjoy my conversations with our AA members a bit more than the typical conversation. I don’t know why. 6 Reply Palm2 months agoPalmRoger, I’ve heard that there is so much honesty in the conversations at the AA. 2 Reply Ed Schulte2 months agoEd SchulteOn the farm were I spent the first 18 years of this life “time” one of the jobs I had to do between harvests etc was to cut down “weeds” . I often wondered why these , milk weed, bull thistle, burdock etc thrived so well where the domesticated plants did not. And they had beauty in their structures way more then “the accepted ones” did. Now, years later I can read the labels of products on the shelves of health food stores.... and there they are i.d.'ed on the labels ,,,,the so-calle...On the farm were I spent the first 18 years of this life “time” one of the jobs I had to do between harvests etc was to cut down “weeds” . I often wondered why these , milk weed, bull thistle, burdock etc thrived so well where the domesticated plants did not. And they had beauty in their structures way more then “the accepted ones” did. Now, years later I can read the labels of products on the shelves of health food stores…. and there they are i.d.’ed on the labels ,,,,the so-called “weeds” are in some very expensive health products ….and I sense they are smiling at me. Those “weeds” are very similar to the so-called “challenges” I faced in other area of survival …..they taught “observation” and every thing has a reason and a lesson behind it. Read More9 Reply Holly in Ohio2 months agoHolly in OhioHahaha! How ironic! 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