Daily Question, January 4 How can I live more simply? 53 Reflections Share Click here to cancel reply.Please log in or Create a Profile to post a comment. Notify me when someone replies to my comment via e-mail. Nina7 months agoNinaThis is a work in progress…by decluttering and purchasing less useless items that end up in the landfill. 2 Reply KC7 months agoKCBy pausing often enough, with intention, for connect with and focus on what really matters, and letting go of the rest – one breath, step, day at a time … 2 Reply Mary Pat7 months agoMary PatBy continuing to go through my stuff and get rid of things I don't need. We have lived in this house for 22 years, and it shows! I have been going through things for months, a little at a time, and now am seeing alot of headway. So....I am continuing...I am looking at everything from wooden spoons to oven thermometers, and donating things we don't need anymore. It is incredible the stuff I saved because maybe one of my children would need it someday(they have said no, they are doing the same ...By continuing to go through my stuff and get rid of things I don’t need. We have lived in this house for 22 years, and it shows! I have been going through things for months, a little at a time, and now am seeing alot of headway. So….I am continuing…I am looking at everything from wooden spoons to oven thermometers, and donating things we don’t need anymore. It is incredible the stuff I saved because maybe one of my children would need it someday(they have said no, they are doing the same thing)or maybe I would need it eventually. Nope. Someone will benefit from this, and that makes me very happy. Read More1 Reply Malag7 months agoMalagLet me focus on the “stuff” part of this question. It’s been gnawing at me to tackle: the stuff I neither need nor want; the stuff I might someday need and am holding it just in case; the stuff that has some sentimental attachment that I can decouple from the sentiment and send on its way. Yup this has been gnawing away. 4 Reply Mary Pat7 months agoMary PatYes! Me, too. 1 Reply Brown Rose7 months agoBrown RoseBecome a minimalist. 2 Reply Kelli M7 months agoKelli MLiving more simply is about choosing what to say yes to, being okay with resting, and knowing that I am enough. 2 Reply mam_gigi7 months agomam_gigiI think I could mind my own business more often. I tend to be a little codependent with my relatives, always checking up on them and getting caught up in their drama, when it would be better to accept that I can’t change them or their situation, they have to do it themselves, and I should just focus on finding peace and tending to my own issues. 2 Reply MEG7 months agoMEGBy finding our/own flow, in the process of letting go and in the letting in, with simplicity. 2 Reply Anonymous7 months agoAnonymousstop thinking about it 😏 5 Reply Lou Mu7 months agoLou MuTwo ways- 1. Lower the bar. Stop letting high expectations create unnecessary complexities and frustrations. 2. Just say no. No further reason or explanation required. 4 Reply mam_gigi7 months agomam_gigiI agree that being overly perfectionistic or competitive just adds more pressure and frustration rather than peace and comfort. This is something I have always struggled with. 1 Reply Don Jones7 months agoDon JonesI am not sure it is about simple. For me, it is more about living authentically. Simplicity may be an outcome but not the cause. 11 Reply diane venus7 months agodiane venusBy only reading 1 book at a time by joining clutterersanon 4 Reply mam_gigi7 months agomam_gigiI struggle with this, but definitely think that I would finish more books if I focused on one at a time. 1 Reply Linda7 months agoLindaI think my husband and I live fairly simply. We are both retired, have a smaller place than before, don’t need to buy business clothing any more, so our clothing needs are simple. We do buy high quality food but we eat less than we did when we were working. All in all, it is a nice way to live. 7 Reply Kelli M7 months agoKelli MI really love this – I am just starting to live on my own and i am prioritizing high quality food that feel good for my body… focusing on the “simple”, less “processed” foods. 1 Reply Sandra7 months agoSandraKevin has captured this one for me: “It’s about living simply in heart, Spirit, and space…” For me at this time, living simply in heart and Spirit is the key. Clearing my head and my heart of heaviness and doubt. Filling the space created with love and kindness. Noticing and celebrating the small joys, bringing them into the light and allowing them to shine and to grow. Choosing to focus on the good. Choosing to live gratefully. 5 Reply Holly in Ohio7 months agoHolly in Ohiolovely, Sandra. 2 Reply Hot Sauce7 months agoHot SauceMaybe when I clean up my room a bit, I can go through my stuff and see what I want to get rid of. I honestly have a lot of clutter that I don’t really need or even really want, for that matter. Also, I dream of living in a tiny home once I get my own place. 4 Reply Elaine7 months agoElainePandemic times have been a tutorial in simple living. Social and entertainment opportunities have been minimal and revealed that I am more attuned to the essentials when I do less. I resonate with Holly’s comment equating simple living to focussing on the basics. On the other hand, I am easily distracted and attracted to stimuli so it’s always going to be a dance! 6 Reply Elaine7 months agoElaineI need to add that living simply does not mean living small. Living the Great Fullness or living from our largeness is our birthright! 6 Reply Kevin7 months agoKevinElaube, I love the last sentence. It resonated deeply with me. You found words for what I knew but could not express. Thank you 5 Reply Mica7 months agoMicaDo I want to live more simply? No. My covid-locked-down life is quite simple enough. I want to spend more of my time in useful pursuits such as quilting, but I don’t want to do that strongly enough to actually put this plan into practice. 5 Reply Nicki7 months agoNickiLiving simply is just as much about de-cluttering my mind as it is about de-cluttering my space. I’ve kept up the process of de-cluttering space for a few years now; my mind still needs more work. I am working on – through daily habits and practices – being more mindful of what I give away my attention to, not giving it away to things that don’t matter so much, and staying more focused on things that feed the spirit. 7 Reply Carol7 months agoCarolThis question has been rolling around in my head for two hours. It’s definitely tied to the need to “let go” but not just let go of stuff. It’s about letting go of anything that keeps me from going with the flow. Life is process not product and that is something I need to remind myself daily. In 12-Step circles they have a saying, “Keep it Simple, Stupid!” Mother Nature cries “Come and See.” What the world needs now is not love. Human Nature is capable of displaying love quite re...This question has been rolling around in my head for two hours. It’s definitely tied to the need to “let go” but not just let go of stuff. It’s about letting go of anything that keeps me from going with the flow. Life is process not product and that is something I need to remind myself daily. In 12-Step circles they have a saying, “Keep it Simple, Stupid!” Mother Nature cries “Come and See.” What the world needs now is not love. Human Nature is capable of displaying love quite readily. What we as a species lack is Wisdom. If I want to live more simply, I know I must pray for Wisdom, forsake the duality that is driven by fear, forfeit willfulness for willingness not only for myself but for all human kind. I must pray that we all learn to let go of egoic-power-seeking thinking. Richard Rohr says, “The sequence, without being too clever, goes something like this: we compare, we copy, we compete, we conflict, we conspire, we condemn, and we crucify. If we do not recognize some variation of this pattern within ourselves and put an end to it [let it go]in the early stages, it is almost inevitable. That is why spiritual teachers of any depth will always teach simplicity of lifestyle and freedom from the competitive power game, which is where it all begins.” I was researching my journals this morning for writings on “simplicity” and was drawn to a phrase I wrote in 2016: “A journey is from point A to point B. A pilgrimage is from moment to moment.” Life is trustworthy so may we all pray for the wisdom to let go, let it be, go with the flow. Let us all keep it simple and pray for wisdom moment to moment. Decisions based in wisdom are empowering…very different from power-seeking. I close this sharing with a wisdom poem by Asta Fleur Love There is a simplicity in creation which aches to be understood without human interpretations. A harmony that exists in all living things, which cannot be contained in doctrines that seek to bind and restrain. Nor mimicked by rituals and symbols which serve as bondages of obligation. How can we understand this simplicity, if four walls are keeping us locked inside? Inside our own biases and self righteousness? Inside our ego? We have come to complicate what is meant to be simple. Like standing outside beneath a canvas of blue and feeling the atmosphere whisper Love. Or reverently holding a leaf, crafted by the hands of Love. Do you see? We are everywhere surrounded by the Creator of creation. All we touch and smell and see has first been touched by the hands of Love. That is the harmony in all living things. And that is the simplicity in creation we are called to understand. Asta Fleur Love Read More7 Reply Mike7 months agoMikeThe first impulse in response to the notion of living simply is to get rid of things, as many have said here. But one can get all frenetic by Marie Kondo-ing one’s life too. I think Kevin’s take on living simply helps balance the notion of decluttering with a focus on process. Very helpful and, as he suggests, a continual challenge. Being 18 months into retirement, I am working on both aspects this idea. 5 Reply 1 2 Next » My Private Gratitude Journal Write an entry in your private gratefulness journal Get Started This site is brought to you by A Network for Grateful Living, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. All donations are fully tax deductible in the U.S.A. DONATE https://gratefulness.org/content/uploads/2015/03/GX-Gold-Participant-L.png Community Engagement Guidelines Privacy Policy [email protected] Connect with us on Social Media: © 2000 - 2022, A Network for Grateful Living Website by Briteweb