I certainly plan too much ahead and tend to set deadlines that would match the society. However, if I really want to enjoy the life I need to take deep breaths.
I am learning to be more understanding of other people’s feelings and behaviours. This is helping me a lot to deal with the realations I have with family and friends 😊 Understanding others also helps me to let go of tiny things that spoil moments that are happening right now. Especially in this pandemic I learned to appreciate little moments as I can’t meet friends and all I have left is phone calls and pictures of our little daily adventures.
Therefore, trying to be understanding towards people and accepting them for who they are, can save you from wasting time with little arguments and give you more time to enjoy your life 😊

Despite I ended up getting hurt several times, I still want to look at the good side of people. I want to give the benefit of the doubt because at the end of the day we humans make mistakes. I am not excluded. So I would like to think that people can be bigger people by acknowledging the bad side of people and have a safe relationship with friends to not get hurt. At the end of the day, there were good reasons that made me build a rapport with these people.
Quite not sure about the concept of the absolute best though.