Despite I ended up getting hurt several times, I still want to look at the good side of people. I want to give the benefit of the doubt because at the end of the day we humans make mistakes. I am not excluded. So I would like to think that people can be bigger people by acknowledging the bad side of people and have a safe relationship with friends to not get hurt. At the end of the day, there were good reasons that made me build a rapport with these people.
Quite not sure about the concept of the absolute best though.