I find this a very difficult question indeed to engage in. I have recently been beyond hurt — the wind has been knocked out of my lungs. I have always been loving and giving toward my adult step kids and have been living with one of my step kids for over 7 years. I have always tried to take the high road, she is often irritable and short and grumpy and overly private. I have tried my best to only manifest love and kindness toward her and she has recently done the unthinkable. So i have spent many a nights and days wondering what i did or what she could have felt to have hurt me so this way. I don’t have the answer. She is a non communicator. I am no psychic. So all I can say this question is hard — i feel a lot of hurt pain anger sadness. I am trying to send love to her so that her heart may open again. I am trying to heal my heart too.