The one person I can think Or that this applies to is my biological father. While I continue to choose not to have a relationship with him, it has been hard to open up to someone whom I don’t know and whom so many deep hurts are centered around. I’ve done a lot of work around forgiveness acceptance and kindness around this absent person but he is absent now because it is my choice. But I wold like him to know that I forgive him and that while there is nothing we can do to change the past the future still has many possibilities. As a child I wanted a relationship with you till the one day you had me fraudulently sign a legal document for you. I was like 7. But I knew something wasn’t right so I stopped trying. Funny thing is, nothing really changed for me. But I have a father who has guided me very well and loved me more than my blood family. He loved me even when I could not love myself. And still to this day has proven a respectful and worthy father figure. But I do thank you for stepping away if it meant that you gave me a better life. And I’m sorry it keeps us from each other.. I’m grateful you’ve attempted to reach out. But I’m not ready to let go yet, but I do forgive you and hope you forgive me too. I’m living the best life I possibly can and I’m loving every minute of it. Know that your temperament for which I have acquired has helped me as have your biological traits. So thank you!