If I can take responsibility for my part, then I am not defending myself and can look to bring a solution rather than a blame focus to a problem. If I accept that I make mistakes or am lacking in an area, then I can look for how to rectify or improve in an area. It also allows others to take responsibility for their part too, but the fear is that they will accept our admission rather than offer one of theirs. But we still “win” for ourselves, because we have been true with ourselves an...

If I can take responsibility for my part, then I am not defending myself and can look to bring a solution rather than a blame focus to a problem. If I accept that I make mistakes or am lacking in an area, then I can look for how to rectify or improve in an area. It also allows others to take responsibility for their part too, but the fear is that they will accept our admission rather than offer one of theirs. But we still “win” for ourselves, because we have been true with ourselves and can leave the other person’s conscience to take its own journey. We are not responsible for their journey.

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