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I appreciate Jess’ reframe, of hearing and respecting another person’s perspective. I am not sure how useful it is to look for a measure of halfway, except perhaps over time.
In a healthy, open relationship of trust, understanding, connection and appreciation seem to flow more easily. In a less healthy, less functional or higher conflict relationship, the meeting of hearts and minds can look quite different. In my experience one person often does the ‘meeting (ie. far more t...
In a healthy, open relationship of trust, understanding, connection and appreciation seem to flow more easily. In a less healthy, less functional or higher conflict relationship, the meeting of hearts and minds can look quite different. In my experience one person often does the ‘meeting (ie. far more than halfway), which allows the other party to respond in kind as best they are able. Far from ideal, for sure.
Yes, conflict resolution. Sigh …
During Covid and even before, I often find it difficult to reach out to others, in spite of my best intentions. Sometimes a friend will call, which lifts my spirit and energies. I often then pick up the phone and pass it on. Sometimes I am the one to pick up the phone first to initiate a call. Perhaps that, too, may influence an ongoing energy of kindness….
I am very aware of this challenge, and appreciate the question and thoughtful reflections. Praying for insight and way to open on this one.
I can honour the paths of others by listening to understand and respect without judgement, expectations, needs or demands, by setting and honouring healthy boundaries, and by being open minded, open hearted, grateful and generous when /as we are fortunate to walk together. Tea is good too…
Practicing being kind.
As I learn to cultivate peace through daily practice. I am more able to respond in a skillful way in chaotic moments. ???
Today is my first day back in the city after two weeks living closer to the wind, waves, ocean, animals, trees … I appreciate the reminder and invitation to spend time in and honour silence, while being aware of the clutter and clatter which too often seek to fill the space. Thank you! ??
I speak with my Dad most days. It is a daily practice of reaching out, listening, seeking to understand, and being present. Learning to be and work with he and my family on this journey offers tons of opportunities.
Slowing down or staying still. Grounding and focusing on the present and what is within my sphere of influence (ie. very little!). Practicing gratefulness. Doing what I can. Praying. Trusting the great mystery …
As I practice returning to and staying grounded / centred in and with my own experience, truth, challenges, needs, I am more able to offer deep respect, understanding and kindness to others. My aging father and family are my best teachers now. There are many invitations daily.
Practicing being grounded, still and deep listening to understand …
A guided meditation, yoga, walking or doing something physical, taking the first baby step, setting a timer to begin, asking for help and / or support, or simply accepting the feeling of powerlessness and trusting that it will pass… eventually it does.
My desire and need to trust, allow, surrender, let go and let things flow. A part of me aspires to a more disciplined, orderly, structured, methodical, goal oriented approach to many things. Without the more casual, relaxed part I would be one miserable human! ?
Thanks Arleen, I appreciate your down to earth words. Marriage for me is also a place of practice, just as you name so beautifully, ??
Dusty Su, This is beautiful and so helpful to be with what is … Sincere thank you! ??
Arleen, Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom from the world of work – listen, honour and act on the heart’s whisper before it becomes a shout. I have lived the story you name from start to finish, over many years. The consequences of not listening until the shout are enormous. Slowly down enough to hear and honour the whispers can be scary, challenging and complicated. So good to hear that you are there with and for your clients through their journeys. Perhaps you are a dee...
Arleen, Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom from the world of work – listen, honour and act on the heart’s whisper before it becomes a shout. I have lived the story you name from start to finish, over many years. The consequences of not listening until the shout are enormous. Slowly down enough to hear and honour the whispers can be scary, challenging and complicated. So good to hear that you are there with and for your clients through their journeys. Perhaps you are a deeply valuable career whisperer in their lives? ??????
Eliza, Wow – I am so impressed – that you are able to so deeply listen, hear and nurture the whispers into full life, in spite of fear. Also, that you have the stillness and patience to hear, be with and honour the whispers one at a time. Thank you! You have given me hope that such whole hearted listening, attending, nurturing and manifesting is possible! ????
Beautiful Cathy. That is such a beautiful everyday kindness! …
Kevin, Such knowing words about silence, and such a helpful reminder. Thank you! ?? KC
Thanks Michele!
Kevin, Thank you so much for sharing each of these. I generally find the ‘how can I be of service’ question daunting and overwhelming. It shuts me down. The quotes You share are so helpful to reframe the question in a positive, practical and life giving direction. Words are so powerful, ??
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