Listening. Active Listening. Listening not with the intent to disprove or prove but to learn about the other person. To get curious and seek to understand where the other person is coming from and how you can help one another become better.

My mother always believed that the eyes are the window to the soul. As corny as it is, she challenged me to always pray before I truly looked at someone, or tried to understand someone and ask God to show me this person how you He see’s them.

What is the Four Rooms concepts? Is this in a book you read?
Seems interesting!