Expectations constrain/limit me, without doubt. Life experiences have truly instructed me “not to take anything/anyone for granted”, and hopefully with honest self evaluation how to better live a life of gratefulness.

I recently sold the house where I raised my 2 children and moved into a 1 bedroom condominium. It was a difficult decision along the way, up to closings and even now, for many reasons, but I think and I hope it was the right one for all three of us moving forward, despite the uncertainty that lies ahead. The change will, with time, hopefully encourage positive healthful growth and change for each of us.

Reducible uncertainty is a gift in that it guides/motivates us to further understand.
Irreducible uncertainty is a gift in that it can provide inspiration, reverance, awe, ….

Based on observation over many years I decided to and for some time now have focused volunteer time toward providing structured regular activity directed at increasing communication and understanding across a large community of practice within my work community.

It is difficult to for me to compile a complete list but the exercise alone results in gratitude for the extraordinary gifts received “easily” and also via challenging circumstances and effort — I’d further add that my list from whom also includes animals, the natural world, & art. Thank you.

a nice view of the sunny morning sky, school pictures of my 2 children when they were young(er), & some indoor plants I tend to regularly

A great question – as I reflect to reply it’s clearly a call for me for more purposeful gratefulness inspired action.

For many but not all, one’s perspective (e.g., what we “see” to constitute an extraordinary life) is a matter of choice. Unfortunately, for many complicated reasons, being able to “see” clearly can be difficult for some / at times. For me in particular, the continuous burden of (some difficult) responsibilities can warp my perspective such that I can’t clearly “see” that I do have an extraordinary life right here right now.

A more thoughtful appreciation of my past and existing connections with others might inspire me to be more inviting, approachable, and open to new connections, and in that process possibly also inspire others in a similar manner as well. Scale up, and we have at a minimum a kinder and gentler world to share together.

Human interaction often requires diplomacy skills and a willingness to accommodate (give up/share a little bit w/r/t what you think is right) in attempts to find a best solution space among competing interests for everyone involved. Regarding truthfulness, I think you may be in opposition to operative fundamental social truths when all you want is to be right.

Thank you! I could read and re-read this note. It’s a very helpful message for me.

Well said, thanks.