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They are all over- – a server offering my dog a treat – neighbors watching out for and visiting my 91 year old mom – an acquaintance sending me a web link I might be interested in – neighbors letting me park in their driveway – a stranger offering me his shopping cart – a man carrying his mothers purse – merchants waving hi as we pass – my hubby starting my tea when he hears me waking up R...
They are all over- – a server offering my dog a treat – neighbors watching out for and visiting my 91 year old mom – an acquaintance sending me a web link I might be interested in – neighbors letting me park in their driveway – a stranger offering me his shopping cart – a man carrying his mothers purse – merchants waving hi as we pass – my hubby starting my tea when he hears me waking up – folks offering a beggar money or food I could continue – thank you for asking me to recollect these moments!
To be open and present to Ultimate Reality, to live that calling each moment- whatever it may be.
Ha- that is my struggle every day!!!
I know I take for granted my hubby, and try to remedy that, but have not found a way to make living in gratitude for him in my life “stick.” I am going to read others comments on how they have learned to change as a way to help me.
For me, to consciously be reverent increases my awareness in the moment and hopefully opens me more fully to the graces that reverence brings.
I am not sure I would call the revelations divulged as truths, but life sometimes falls into place once you detach from the “shoulds.” An example is when we were moving to a new city and could not find a home to buy. Things were not working out. I wanted to get situated and kept trying to crowbar solutions to get us settled. I thought, “I know it shouldn’t be this hard!!!” Finally I gave up, and surrendered my desire to be settled quickly. A week lat...
I am not sure I would call the revelations divulged as truths, but life sometimes falls into place once you detach from the “shoulds.” An example is when we were moving to a new city and could not find a home to buy. Things were not working out. I wanted to get situated and kept trying to crowbar solutions to get us settled. I thought, “I know it shouldn’t be this hard!!!” Finally I gave up, and surrendered my desire to be settled quickly. A week later my hubby was transferred to another new location. If I had pushed or forced us into a home in the 1st new location, just to be settled quickly, it would have been much more to untangle and really more difficult get settled in the 2nd new location:)
To reciprocate all that nature shares, I can take steps to take care of nature by: – using less non-recyclable goods like plastic – using non-toxic or natural sprays and fertilizers – wasting less, ex. instead of pouring a half-drunk glass of water down the sink, water a plant, do the same with dirty dishwater – compost garbage -capture rain water for watering plants -volunteer for clean-up days – find many other ways t...
To reciprocate all that nature shares, I can take steps to take care of nature by: – using less non-recyclable goods like plastic – using non-toxic or natural sprays and fertilizers – wasting less, ex. instead of pouring a half-drunk glass of water down the sink, water a plant, do the same with dirty dishwater – compost garbage -capture rain water for watering plants -volunteer for clean-up days – find many other ways to reciprocate -and finally sit and enjoy the gift of nature
Recently someone preached negative words about a type of prayer I pray. I was in the congregation and I immediately felt a physical pain in my heart. This feeling was new to me and I didn’t want it to linger. This feeling/vulnerability moved me to: 1. quietly talk to the person about their opinion asking why they felt that way 2. pray for that person ongoing The pain left me once these actions were taken
I care for myself when I participate in morning prayer, , meditate and practice yoga! Then I am ready and have filled my “tank” so to better care for my mom and those around me!
Not ever surprised by love, but sometimes by people who demonstrate love! I once left my purse outside on the ground where I was sitting eating an ice cream cone waiting to get into the museum Gallery of Florence. We finally entered the gallery, I went all the way through only to then to realize I left my purse where I had been sitting. I ran back out and there was my purse in the same spot with the man who had been next to me. I retrieved my purse from the ground. The man smiled...
Not ever surprised by love, but sometimes by people who demonstrate love! I once left my purse outside on the ground where I was sitting eating an ice cream cone waiting to get into the museum Gallery of Florence. We finally entered the gallery, I went all the way through only to then to realize I left my purse where I had been sitting. I ran back out and there was my purse in the same spot with the man who had been next to me. I retrieved my purse from the ground. The man smiled at me, got up and then walked away. He had been guarding my purse the whole time. I don’t know who he was but always remember his kindness to a woman he didn’t even know. To me that was an act of love.
I can let go of expectations and try to live more in the moment.
And I do love the world. Sometimes I struggle with the idea that we should not love the world as we are made for greater things, but I am grateful for each day for this life I have been gifted. So how can I best love the world, by doing my best to take care of the earth and the people in it. Especially those places and people I have been given..
The part of me that just crunched my one car with my other car as I backed out of the driveway:(
The light within me blesses the light within you for “every creature is a mirror of Divinity.” Hildegard of Bingen (for the last part)
Well, this made me giggle – thank you!
Ahh! Charlie, Thank you for sharing! Here is something I can put into practice in my life! I don’t think I actually verbalize to my hubby how important he is! I am going to try and find a way to actually mention this to him on some regular basis – and this will help me remember in addition to letting him hear how I feel!! Thank you for something so simple that I missed:)
Made me giggle!!!
Yes! Mary Pat – that is what it does for me too! I couldn’t articulate it but you caught it!!!
Lol-that can be so true:)
LOL – had not heard “don’t should on yourself:)
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